Think it's time to end it

[MustAdministerSeroidS]

I have been seeing my sister best frind for about two months now realy fancied her when we were at school (i'm 24 she's 27 ) any how i found out that she realy fancied me so we starting seeing each other but i have a few issues that i need your help on

!. She is still leaving with her exhusband (Paperwork in the post)
2.Do i need any more issues !!
2. Not sure that i fancy her any more
3. She just came over from work and we ended up shagging
4. All i was thinking was "bollocks i was ment to be training tonight, And it's back night i like training back"

Think it's time we split up but i hate this bit but i'm not happy in the relationship but i know she has fallen for me.

Is there a nice way to finish it ?


M.A.S.S

 

[firewitch]

Honesty is the best policy and the sooner the better. You can't avoid hurting someone in a situation like this, so at least make sure its the truth that hurts and not a lie. ( I don't meant you should be cruel, just tell her you don't think there is a future and you don't want to string her along, or something like that)

If she has really fallen for you, I don't think staying friends works very well, at least not until there has been some time passed (like months)

Good luck kiddo

 

[Bikini Mod]

BE HONEST and do not send mixed signals, meaning if you really aren't into her than don't have sex with her a week after you broke it off.

Tell her that she's a nice person and you like her company but you really don't want a commitment at this moment in time.

 

[MustAdministerSeroidS]

Thanks ladies. We split up last weekend i went round and we had a chat and basicly told her that altthough we realy fancied each other i didn't think we got on that well so i thought we should split up.
She tock it quit well and i think we will remain friends.


M.A.S.S

 

[Alexis]

As everybody said... Be honest

 

[bondgirl2217]

it is good that you broke up with her..and that you were honest. but remember to stay away now if she calls you to " just be friends" because if she is still into you "just friends" will only stur up problems..

 

[Pamela]

"She just came over from work and we ended up shagging."


What does that mean..

Glad it worked out...

 

[Bigsatan13]

"She just came over from work and we ended up shagging."


What does that mean..

Glad it worked out...

It's Austin Powers, Yeah Baby! What a dick!