most soy milk is LOADED with sugar.. watch out. To top it off, the overall consensus is that males should try to avoid excess soy in the diet too.. so I'd personally go with sugar free skim milk, they got it at thee store it's sweetened with splenda instad of lactose... pretty good on cereal i gotta say. As for cereal, try to get something a bit lower on the GI than special K. Go to trader joes and get somthing that is mostly fibrous carbs, you can also get some with flax in em and all kindsa nuts and stuff. If you have to have something high gi, then take some ALA with it.