For me masturbating varries greatly....sometimes I'll go a week or more without playing with myself...sometimes I'll do it 3 or 4 times a day...those are usually the days after a great night of sex with Stromba and he's at work and I'm home alone...my mind wanders off to the night before and it's wonderful. I really get a lot more out of intercourse so I'll usually hold off from playing with myself and get some good sex with him which varries from a few times a week to a few times a day.