i know. . .i'm just being difficult. . .and pointing out that different elements of our society view things a little differently. . .AND, if vanessa bryant decides that she feels different about it later on, she can change her mind, change her argument from infidelity (assuming that kobe's only playing his home court now) to irreconcilable differences (i can no longer live with the fact that my husband cheated on me) and take him for everything that their pre-nup (assuming that one is in place) will allow. . .the law definitely does not share your point of view with regard to whether it's cheating or not. . .