Being a cheating douchebag doesn't mean he deserves to have a girl cry rape on him. But being sympathetic about that, as I said, doesn't make me think he's less of a douche. And just because some get a worse rap than him as far as their lives being changed (which I find hard to believe, because in he said she said kinds of situations, I've never heard of a jury actually convicting) doesn't mean it doesn't still suck that he got villified for something he didn't do.
My being female has nothing to do with it. I have no retarded sense of gender loyalty. What's fair is fair, what isn't isn't. He's a turd, but he's not a rapist.