Why Do Some Women Think Muscle Is Unsexy?

[4BADASS]

I know theres a line to draw for some girls, but im working on one that wants a :
flat stomach (but know definition)
Thin body
straight arms (no sexy roundness or curves)
straight legs( same as above)
and a disant chest.

When she sees a picture of a fitness model or bikini model she says 'thats to much muscle' she looks like a guy.

she complains about how you can see all there muscles. I told her thats just for contest and they dont walk around like that and its very hard to get that way.

She just started lifting wieghts,,,only twice a week , but is now worried about getting to big or growing muscle.

I wish i could measure her arms so I could post it and you ll see im not making all this up.
I ve spok to a couple other guys and they say the same thing about there wives.

AND WHATS WITH GIRLS THINKING EVERYBODY IS LOOKING AT THEM IN THE WIEGHT ROOM?
IGNORE IT, DAMN IT!

Girls, Ladies help any advice for me and all the weman that see this thread.
HELP STOP THE MYTHS!

 

[Hannibal]

She just started lifting wieghts,,,only twice a week , but is now worried about getting to big or growing muscle.

 

[TheProject]

Thanks for putting up with my bout of sarcasm lately, folks. Don't know WHERE it's coming from. I'm laughing tho, so don't take me seriously.

you? sarcastic? No!

 

[Hannibal]

you? sarcastic? No!

now THAT'S sarcasm!!!

 

[new@gettinbig]

Dont get me started on this bull shit......She WILL NOT get big...she doesnt have the hormones too....if it were that easy we would all be huge like the pros....cmon be realistic...Also it is all matter of opinion...some girls are like that....they would rather be skinny poles than have a lil meat on their bones..dont waste your time or energy....everyone has a mind of their own and you cant change that....tell her to quit worrying about who is looking in the gym and lift some fuckin iron....

 

[Hannibal]

tell her to quit worrying about who is looking in the gym and lift some fuckin iron....

*golf clap*

very well said....there lots of women out there that would do well to listen to that sound piece of advice.

...and the f-bomb is a nice touch

 

[c3bodybuilding]

This is horrible. The general public is so misled! It would take YEARS AND YEARS, incredible dedication, good rest/training/nutrition habits, and good genetics to ever get 'huge'. That goes for man OR woman. She certainly would not be big in just a week or two. If it were that easy every guy would look like Lou Ferrigno, and every girl would be a Rachael Mclish. It just isn't that easy.

But yes, a lot of woman think muscle is unsexy, on both fellow females and males. Many woman whom once loved the way I looked when I was 175-191, now think I am taking it too far. My own fiance who is into bodybuilding now, is told by her father "muscles are for men only"! So a lot of people find muscle unattractive. I for one LOVE woman who have the dedication to hit the gym, and lift the weights. I don't care if you are 100lbs and just starting out to build muscle, or a 250lb woman at 5'4 who is just starting to change her body... it doesn't matter, I have respect for you. And yes, I find it to be very attractive. But hey, I'm a guy, so my answer might not be what you were looking for. Perhaps I can get my fiance to look at the thread..

 

[SheHuLK]

originally posted by 4BADASS
flat stomach (but know definition)
Thin body
straight arms (no sexy roundness or curves)
straight legs( same as above)
and a disant chest.

so... your girlfriend wants to look like a starving ethiopian with a boob job to each his own...

Originally posted by new@gettinbig
tell her to quit worrying about who is looking in the gym and lift some fuckin iron....

My thoughts exactly new@

your girlfriend will probably never change her mind about this... she will be just another one of the many misinformed pink weight lifting, i want to tone up but not get 'bulky', slimfast drinking cardio freaks. at least you are tying to knock some sense into her... good luck!

so many women are like that, its sad really

 

[wilson6]

Sometimes they just have to do it and then realize how much better they look with muscle. I have trained several women (New@) included who clearly stated that they DIDN'T want to get big or put on muscle in the beginning, now they want to know when they'll put on muscle.

W6

 

[ann]

AND WHATS WITH GIRLS THINKING EVERYBODY IS LOOKING AT THEM IN THE WIEGHT ROOM?
IGNORE IT, DAMN IT!



Well, in all honesty, they are looking. I never mind.....kind of an ego trip and motivational pusher for me Gotta love it !