Rant (venting, whatever)

[starfish]

Wow....that stinks. I could never be married or even respect a man who did not validate my feelings. What's the point?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Wow....that stinks. I could never be married or even respect a man who did not validate my feelings. What's the point?

Just one of the many reasons why I am still single going on 5 years after kicking my asshole ex out...

Though, I've gotten to the point where I would very much like to be committed to just one guy again, until I find a guy that deserves me and treats me like the queen that I am, I will be satisfied to remain single.

Jenscat... perhaps some counseling might really help. It is always worth a shot.

 

[Sassy69]

I'd like to hear from mothers of boys though... do you teach your boys to validate women's feelings ??


I think its just the way men are wired. Sometimes I'd just like to short-circuit them...

 

[Gymgurl]

They have to be taught how by us or someone else (counselor) most are trainalbe lol

 

[Raina]

Is he always that way or does it go in buots? In my house it tends to go in bouts-- like 2 weeks of hardcore male PMS or something during which he is completely intolerable and impossible to talk to.

It sounds like he's not good at talking about things in the heat of the moment. Do you ever bring things up that happened a week ago (or a few days ago) once he's calmed down? Seriously, if men vented more I think they'd be happier. They seem to hold things in and stew over things and take it out on anyone in their path.

Counselling helped us. It at least makes fights go faster and move forward instead of just staying in the same miserable place.

I'm sorry he made your weekend rough though and that you're pissed. I would be too. Good luck.

 

[Sassy69]

I'd put itching powder in his shorts.

 

[Sassy69]

I was waiting for a friend outside a steakhouse last night and this family of a grandmother, 2 friends & their son & 2 daughters went into the restaurant. The son, about 13, went ahead of them, grabbed the door and opened, saying "Ladies first".

It was so cute the mom was just smiling ear to ear.

 

[PaganPunkstress]

I know how you feel Jen!
let me give you a big hug!
*gives jen a big hug*

 

[Sassy69]

LOL Well when you are dealing w/ burps, the delivery is VERY important! (LOL!) I guess it's better he says "sorry" than takes a bow....

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

My ex-boyfriend Lee hates women with a passion. I'm glad to be rid of him. I'm glad that I finally found myself a really nice guy that has respect for women.

I had my 10 year nephew Jesse a month ago made a very uncalled for comment while he was over at my house after school. Jesse said that all girls were dumb, useless, helpless, and stupid. I gave him a half an hour time out and I grounded him from the Sony Play Station for two weeks. My roommate and cousin Rob watches Jesse after school during the week. Jesse's mother is completely clueless and is too chicken shit to disclipine her children. Plus it didn't help that her douchebag ex-husband Peter has no respect for women either. That rubbed off on Jesse as well.