GUYS - Are you honest with women about..

[Deleted member 33117]

good enough


i don't care what these guys say about you, you're alright in my book

Thanks Smurfet. Yeah, I am not one of those guys who dates a girl and tells her her cares about her and really doesn't. In all honesty, if a guy just wants to get laid there is no need to date, just find girls looking for the same. The purpose of dating is to find out if you are compatible with, and just get to know someone better that you met and enjoyed the company of initially.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

if it is important to her, I lose interest pretty freaking fast.

 

[Lestat]

Its not a question I'd expect to come up early on.. not at all...

I honestly don't know my exact number, I usually avoid the question and say "about a dozen" .. again I wouldn't expect this to come up until way later on into a relationship, however its normal to be curious about your partner.. to want to know as much about them as possible.

 

[velvett]

Two rules of thumb when asking such questions.

1 - Do not ask questions that you are not prepared to handle the answer to.

2 - Do not ask questions that you already know the answer to.


I think that sums that up right there.

 

[Becoming]

1 - Do not ask questions that you are not prepared to handle the answer to.

2 - Do not ask questions that you already know the answer to.

3 - If you find that you MUST be asking, don't you kind of already know the answer?

 

[velvett]

3 - If you find that you MUST be asking, don't you kind of already know the answer?

Of course.

That's really what I was getting at...

 

[casualbb]

Why are people ashamed of having slept with many partners? Are you afraid you will be judged poorly for it?

 

[velvett]

Why are people ashamed of having slept with many partners? Are you afraid you will be judged poorly for it?

I think it just and to the possible speculation of what a person may be like in the future regardless of who the past may or may not effect the future.

It kinda falls along the belief that once a cheater always a cheater (once a Ho always a ho sort of idea).

 

[Becoming]

Of course.

That's really what I was getting at...

lol serious....

like the "if you have to ask you can't afford it" thing...

 

[velvett]

lol serious....

like the "if you have to ask you can't afford it" thing...

OMG - It's totally wild.

I have had clients that will purchse 50-75k of furniture and furnishings and then demand to know how much the delivery will be for all the items.

I've never been able to get over that - you drop 50k and your dancing over less than 5% of what you just purchased.