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GUYS - Are you honest with women about..

I know this thread was directed at the guys, but let me say that as a woman, I couldn't see myself coming out and asking the question ina direct manner. Id only ask if he asked me first, then I might say "and what about you?" lol. but still its awkward.

Frankly, we have to be reasonable enough to know that people have pasts and what or who they did previously shouldnt solely determine who they are now. As long as they are clean then it's all good. Im not foolish enough to think that anyone I meet at this point in my life (I'm 33 yrs od) has not had sex before they met me >LOL
 
I have a don't ask dont' tell policy and have been advised by a girl and two guys who are friends of mine to NEVER admit my true number. If asked I have an answer ready.

"It does not matter how many other girls I have been with, because they were not as special as you, and I am with you now."
 
Lestat said:
the number of chicks you have had sex with?

I'd imagine that once the number gets too high its a turn off to women, especially initially. How do you get around that? Just never fessing up? Or do you just under estimate?

I've been sexually active 11 years, only had 2 serious long term girlfriends that took up about 2 years each. That leave 7 years of almost casual sex... that can do some damage.

Also, on a side note that is somewhat related... since I'm jumping back into the dating scene I got STD tested. (I used to do this once a year before I got serious with my last girlfriend). Proud to say I am still clean on all counts.

Bro, in your case I don't think she's gonna get upset when you tell her of the two girls you slept with.













Now all they guys you've slept with might be a different story.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
"It does not matter how many other girls I have been with, because they were not as special as you, and I am with you now."

That answer is ONLY acceptable if it's TRUE. Nothing worse than saying something like that when it isnt the truth.
 
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SoreArms said:
if she was curious/naive/stupid enough to ask, I'd tell her

Most of the chicks (or guys) that ask this are immature and will end up having some kind of jealousy issue....

The STD check thing is good... I was prolly the only guy I knew who ALWAYS used a condom each and every time, no matter how long I had been with a chick, and looked out for stuff like this... I never got anything, hopefully due to my precautions...

I hope the rest of you do too...
 
Smurfy said:
That answer is ONLY acceptable if it's TRUE. Nothing worse than saying something like that when it isnt the truth.
Well, if I am worried about what she would think about me, and it causing problems in a relationship by her knowing the number then obviously it would be true. I wouldn't date girl for more than a month than I didn't think was special.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Well, if I am worried about what she would think about me, and it causing problems in a relationship by her knowing the number then obviously it would be true. I wouldn't date girl for more than a month than I didn't think was special.

good enough :)


i don't care what these guys say about you, you're alright in my book
 
maybe you people shouldn't have been such whores lol

only 4 for me. 3 were long time girlfriends and the 4th was a good friend while my fiance was there. :)
 
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