Girls cant get me off

[B0ARDIN087]

honestly. i get really raelly close but never blow my load then it jsut kinda stops feeling good. i feel bad i think its bothering my girlfirend cuz she thinks she sucks at handjobs and bj's. she isn't ready to have sex yet so thats not an issue. the drive is there and everythign and i have no problem getting myself off its just that i seem to have trouble when im with her. i think its a mental thing but not sure? any help for me?

 

[awittyusername]

Yep, it is most likely a mental thing. Don't panic!!! That will make it worse. This or premature ejaculation happens to all guys at one time or another. Is it just your GF? Has any other girl got you off?? Do you not like your GF? or Is she the first girl you really like?

 

[B0ARDIN087]

shes te first girl i really like but it has happened with 2 other girls. im young and the 2 other girls really sucked at handjobs and only got blowjobs from 2 people besides current gf(they weren't very cooperative the first one hated and the 2nd was drunk and getting nacous(sp?) after a few min and stopped) and my gf hasn't even realy given me a full one yet. im hoping it will get better as we get more comfortable and i relax a little. also i think im too ansy and expecting it to be quick. well at least i know when we fuck ill prob last a long ass time.

 

[Robert Jan]

I find the more relaxed I am and the more she is just playing around, as opposed to consciously going for an orgasm, the easier I can cum.

 

[YME]

I suggest you hold off on self fulfillment for a few days, then get together with your gf, and just relax, let her enjoy you, if no result refrain til the next time, if you are a healthy male, with a week or so between releases, I guarantee you the 2nd time you'll let loose!!!

 

[Gymgurl]

Well if the girls can't et you off try men....maybe your gay

 

[B0ARDIN087]

gym when i think about men in that way i am get physically disgusted. like it makes me want to throw up. im no homophobe and 2 of the coolest peolpe i know are gay. but trust me im very very much attracted to women i do think its a mental thing....... we'll see

 

[deltreefitness]

Are you on any meds/drugs?

 

[Allon]

in my experience hand jobs and bj's are overrated. The girl really needs to know what she is doing and after the first 30 seconds of sucking usually the feeling dulls and stops being so exciting... if you feel comfortable enough with her you may help her by using your hand or changing your position while she is doing it, this may make it more exciting... also, if you are at this level, you can tell her what she is doing is good or not so good etc... like coach her.

 

[B0ARDIN087]

I suggest you hold off on self fulfillment for a few days, then get together with your gf, and just relax, let her enjoy you, if no result refrain til the next time, if you are a healthy male, with a week or so between releases, I guarantee you the 2nd time you'll let loose!!!

im gong to take this advice i think its a good approach.