Girls cant get me off

[B0ARDIN087]

honestly. i get really raelly close but never blow my load then it jsut kinda stops feeling good. i feel bad i think its bothering my girlfirend cuz she thinks she sucks at handjobs and bj's. she isn't ready to have sex yet so thats not an issue. the drive is there and everythign and i have no problem getting myself off its just that i seem to have trouble when im with her. i think its a mental thing but not sure? any help for me?

 

[awittyusername]

Yep, it is most likely a mental thing. Don't panic!!! That will make it worse. This or premature ejaculation happens to all guys at one time or another. Is it just your GF? Has any other girl got you off?? Do you not like your GF? or Is she the first girl you really like?

 

[B0ARDIN087]

shes te first girl i really like but it has happened with 2 other girls. im young and the 2 other girls really sucked at handjobs and only got blowjobs from 2 people besides current gf(they weren't very cooperative the first one hated and the 2nd was drunk and getting nacous(sp?) after a few min and stopped) and my gf hasn't even realy given me a full one yet. im hoping it will get better as we get more comfortable and i relax a little. also i think im too ansy and expecting it to be quick. well at least i know when we fuck ill prob last a long ass time.

 

[Robert Jan]

I find the more relaxed I am and the more she is just playing around, as opposed to consciously going for an orgasm, the easier I can cum.

 

[YME]

I suggest you hold off on self fulfillment for a few days, then get together with your gf, and just relax, let her enjoy you, if no result refrain til the next time, if you are a healthy male, with a week or so between releases, I guarantee you the 2nd time you'll let loose!!!

 

[Gymgurl]

Well if the girls can't et you off try men....maybe your gay

 

[B0ARDIN087]

gym when i think about men in that way i am get physically disgusted. like it makes me want to throw up. im no homophobe and 2 of the coolest peolpe i know are gay. but trust me im very very much attracted to women i do think its a mental thing....... we'll see

 

[deltreefitness]

Are you on any meds/drugs?

 

[Allon]

in my experience hand jobs and bj's are overrated. The girl really needs to know what she is doing and after the first 30 seconds of sucking usually the feeling dulls and stops being so exciting... if you feel comfortable enough with her you may help her by using your hand or changing your position while she is doing it, this may make it more exciting... also, if you are at this level, you can tell her what she is doing is good or not so good etc... like coach her.

 

[B0ARDIN087]

I suggest you hold off on self fulfillment for a few days, then get together with your gf, and just relax, let her enjoy you, if no result refrain til the next time, if you are a healthy male, with a week or so between releases, I guarantee you the 2nd time you'll let loose!!!

im gong to take this advice i think its a good approach.

 

[deltreefitness]

You're not taking any medications are you?

 

[Gymgurl]

I think you need to relax and get with an older woman that can rock your world....you'll be addicted

 

[theoak01]

just relax man,it will all workout,I assume your both pretty new to sexual things which could be why.

hell Ive only had a orgasm 3 times with a girl,but still shot my load tons of times,so you may not even O once she gets ya blowin

 

[Allon]

Huh? Oak, what do you mean? shot load without orgasm? hmmm.

Boarding, I hope you realized Gymgurls comment above was an oppurtunity for you, if you decide to NOT take her up on it, hmmm, Gymgurl, when you coming to Israel

 

[chewyxrage]

get her naked and play with her while she's doing it. that should turn you on more. works for me.

 

[B0ARDIN087]

lol, i went over there today and we didn't really get into things. just a little touchey. im not worried about when it will happen now she seriously loves to make me happy and shes obsessed with my dick so things will happen sooner or later

 

[theoak01]

Huh? Oak, what do you mean? shot load without orgasm? hmmm.

Boarding, I hope you realized Gymgurls comment above was an oppurtunity for you, if you decide to NOT take her up on it, hmmm, Gymgurl, when you coming to Israel

you have never came,but it was just like blah,no real intense feeling ? us guys can get off without orgasming

when I do Orgasm I go into a full body contraction,every damn muscle,I ripped my mattress apart once,which was real hard to explain to my parents lol

 

[jenny27]

boardin, i have the same problem a lot of times. i enjoy it but after a while lose sensation and think about reaching orgasm so much that i can't. it's definately a mental thing for me. i need to learn to relax more

 

[dugie65]

took me a good 1 1/2 hours to get off bc of this damn codine. Its good for fuckin, it takes your mind off things.

 

[resonator]

When I was in high school, I could never come from BJ's (unless it was after a few days of abstinance). I could come through intercourse though, no problem. It's not too uncommon for someone not to be able to come from just BJ's. Nowadays though, I have no problem coming from a BJ or HJ. I think it's all mental though, so just try and relax and get into it.

 

[Gymgurl]

Yep everyone is different in way that make them cum or give them a better sensation...I have heard of men not being able to cum with a BJ, however have never experienced that with a man

 

[Lowest]

There's only been one girl that got me off with a BJ or a HJ, and she had to try several times before I could relax enough and concentrate on enjoying it. It probably didn't hurt that she got a call on her cell-phone and was talking to her ex while rubbing me off, lol, it's probably wrong, but I thought it was damn hot that she was talking like nothing was going on while staring me in the eyes and giving me a great handjob! Just relax and don't worry as much, it'll happen eventually. And gymgurl, if he doesn't take you up on the offer, I sure will. I've been getting tired of younger girls for a while now, I think i need a real woman to teach me some new tricks