MuscleMom, there are millions of people in the workforce who make a good living without having gone to college.
Percentage wise, far, far less than even 20 years ago and dollar wise, inflation factored in, they're actually earning about 6% less today than they did 20 years ago.
There are more people with college degrees doing jobs that were considered "blue collar" than ever. Meanwhile, those without the diplomas are finding less and less jobs with any type of a future and forget trying to find a job once you're over 45, gods help you if you get laid off from a job you've held for more than 10 years. Even if you can find another job in the same field you're going to take a huge pay cut because there's plenty of college grads who are willing to live with mom and dad and do the job for slave wages -- meanwhile you've got a mortgage, medical bills and maybe a kid still living with you.
Manufacturing keeps moving overseas so all the suits in the boardroom are seeing record profits because now they don't have to pay a living wage to their employees. Heck, they don't even have to provide a safe work environment or humane working conditions.
You're married to a doctor and you have a career, you have little to worry about, relatively speaking. I have chronic pain and haven't worked in two years, can't find a job that I'm qualified to do now, am married to a man whose been with the same company for 39 years, is about to turn 60 and has a "blue collar" physical job. We can't afford LTC insurance so if he gets hurt on the job we're basically fucked, he'd do better to get killed outright. We have no family, our house won't be paid off until 2030, his pension was frozen and we can't afford to pay into his 401K. I really do hope I die within the next 15 years, seriously. One major health crisis for either of us, cancer, bad auto accident, whatever, we'll be destroyed.
This is not where I expected to be 10 years ago. One layoff, a few costly health problems, kids that needed financial help, a couple of major required home repairs and now we're completely in the weeds.