foreigngirl
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slat1 said:My mother can be the same way. Everything has to be her way. She has ruined many Christmas's and family vacations.
She tends to push me as far as she can. She will just keep going and going and going and going until I tell her to go fuck herself. Then she turns to my father and says "do you see how he talks to me". When that happens. I turn to my father and say "You were here for all of this. If you have a problem with what I said you can go fuck yourself too". Then I leave.
The irony of this is that I constantly have them throwing in my face "my temper". I get along with everyone. I can go out by myself and I make friends. Everybodys parents love me. My dad and I get along great. My mother just loves to push me as far as she can. If she held an adult conversation with me there would never be a problem. She is not capable of doing that though. So she pushes me until I can't take it. Then its "my temper" all over again.
*It should be noted that she is Polish!
maybe she sees you as the only male that she can control, (you being her son) cause probably she couldnt do it with her dad or her husband...
I was reading on this long time ago, thats the same reason why they hate their daughters-in-law