what a thread...
Although I do not have many posts on this [great] site, I do a lot of reading. I just finished reading this whole thread, and would like to make a few comments. I started taking TKD at a very early age..I went through all of the rigga-mawroe, but I did have a good master from Korea and he DID know his stuff.. The usual workout was agonizing and sometimes brutal--full contact was the rule, not the exception. I was pretty good, but in my heart of heart, I was simply aiming for that highly-held black belt... THEN, after about 5 years of training, this guy named Bill walked in. He was in his early 50's, not all that big (about 190#), but hard as a rock. He was dressed in what looked like a black karate uniform. He was introduced to the class, and we were told that this was his first day of TKD. He drove up in a '60's model Ford p/up that was all ragged-out--i could smell the cig. smoke on his uniform..
We were doing some full contact sparring that day, and it got pretty ugly..several students had been kncoked out that day. there was one or two students that were EMT's, and they being in class was always a good thing--(personally, i think they should have gotten a break on their rates because they were always 'doctoring'!!) [On with the story] I went up against Bill (kinda thinking I would mop the floor with him) but he DEMOLISHED me....He was using techniques that were not EVEN kin to TKD!! Grappling, JJ, etc...
I thought WTF? This guy is not 'supposed' to do this in here!!
I quickly realized that Bill was the epitome of real-world fighting.
To make a long story shorter, it was no time until I had asked Bill to train me.. I later learned that he had studied (mastered) about 7 other arts, and simply wanted to incorporate TKD into his regeme. I put in countless hours with him, and he tought me a lot. All of my training with him was in the TKD studio, right under the nose of our master (kim). I inherently dropped the desire to simply go up in the TKD ranks to get my black belt because I was learning soo much from this guy. I quit taking TKD with [only] a red belt, but could whip any of the people in my class--with the exception of Bill--but even that match had gotten close and the end of our training...I really like my TKD training, because in our school, we were focused on real-world situations--we incorporated TKD into real-world situations.. Yes, we did indeed do katas, but mainly learned them so that we could do them for belt tests.. Master Kim's grand master's were always there during belt tests, and i think he simply wanted them to see that we did do katas..
In closing, you can usually learn as much as you want to in most any school. While my TKD was awesome and I disagree with some of the comments made about it in earlier posts, it all depends on WHO your instructor is, and what he likes!! My training (even without Bill) was far from traditional.. Also, look around, meet others--there is a GOOD chance that there are a lot of experienced people in there! Just because a person is a white belt does not mean they dont know how to fight (ie Bill).
Good luck with whatever you decide!