some fat doesn't matter either orb, actually unl;ess your a hideo looking troll looks don't always matter
its all about personality, confidence, etc
I've seen some pretty ugly looking dudes with hot chicks, key was these guys were all pretty funny and entertaining, also take a look at musicians. Most of those guys look like they fell down the ugly tree yet they get more tail then pretty much any of us at a whim, whole lot of things work but to get a girl of serious quality and not just some one nighter its all going to come down to personality and confidence in the long run
Train for you not for them, do what makes you happy, sacrificing my strength to get a lot leaner and smaller isn't going to make me happy, just go with whatever brings out the most confidence in you