How come I have to go thru this B.S. every time I get into a relationship?!?

[Moderate_THIS]

FXYGEL I need your advice!

LMAO... it's probably true though... a purely objective mind

 

[YoungBeast]

If it were me,its not me, I would give her a shot but if she fucked up again then I will just leave her. Don't get to attached until you know for sure she is yours. If you get attached and you see her with her ex then all hell can break loose.

 

[alien amp pharm]

LOL so predictable...

Very true.

This girl is very friendly and has a ton of friends, so I can see how she might truly indeed be 'just friends', but then again we've all heard this same ole stuff before from girls.

Even if she felt like that, he is the one that is ruining our relationship and needs to go. She says she didn't realize it. We will see though...

 

[Dial_tone]

She didn't make any attempt to defend Jerk; that's a good sign.

 

[Spanky11]

was that cut and pasted from IM or something similiar? If so, you are just as immature as she. Be a man and sit down with her over something as important as this. don't break up with someone over IM.

oh, and a quick request, please be sure to post her pics up once you have broken up..lol.

 

[jh1]

Very true.

This girl is very friendly and has a ton of friends, so I can see how she might truly indeed be 'just friends', but then again we've all heard this same ole stuff before from girls.

Even if she felt like that, he is the one that is ruining our relationship and needs to go. She says she didn't realize it. We will see though...

You got it half right... when I said predictable... I meant both of you.

It was obvious you would go confront her, but OVER extend your threat... meaning you are threatening to do something you won't do. And now you are trying to get her to GIVE something to make up for what you see as wrong.

She will and you will be back talking/together/whatever.

 

[Y_lifter]

Damn... I sure am glad I'm married..

This stuff never changes over the years..

Just more dramatic is all.. On both sides..
It used to be only the chicks were into the Drama.

Dudes just said "Oh well"... NEXT..

 

[alien amp pharm]

was that cut and pasted from IM or something similiar? If so, you are just as immature as she. Be a man and sit down with her over something as important as this. don't break up with someone over IM.

No spanky, I told her I didn't want to talk about it on IM, that I wanted to talk to her when we saw each other tonight. I was doing the breakup in person, but she kept on until I talked.

 

[Becoming]

Be a man and sit down with her over something as important as this. don't break up with someone over IM.

I agree with the above....

I myself would probably just dump her ass... or you could keep her around - but only for nailing - I wouldn't plan on it going anywhere,and I would make sure to wear a rubber so as not to catch anything from that dude if she does start banging him again.... She will probably continue to see him/talk to him no matter what... If she is only 20 or whatever you should expect stupid ass problems like this... She seems REAL attached to you for the short time you have known each other - big time sign of rebound effect...

BUT.... I have her come over and film some hot sex action - so that if you do dump her and she gets back with the dude you can mail it to him as a parting gift...

 

[alien amp pharm]

Yes I may be predictable, I may be weak, but she is truly a great girl. I don't want to end this forever over a "maybe". If she is sincere I will see in the next few weeks. If I'm not satisfied I will end it for good.

No really, I will.