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How come I have to go thru this B.S. every time I get into a relationship?!?

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Smurfy said:
That sucks that it has to end like that. I mean , afterall, you said you love her. Im sad now.

Yeah, I've never felt this way this fast about someone. We have everything in common. It will pain me to do this, but better now then later on.

I've been thru crap like this before. I'm just glad I'm old/experienced enough to see it now before it gets worse. Thanks for being sad for me. :)
 
Bro, not sure how old you are, but that sounds like a fucking highschool aged chick (which pretty much they all seem like regardless of age...). It also seems like a pretty immature relationship with drama and teen-like games. Many people like this - I do not. Move on if what you truly desire is a mature relationship (not sure that has been invented yet). Good luck mang.
 
it's callled southern hospitality mang. You should know that. OTOH, he needs to mind his bidness.
 
<<<UPDATE>>>

I left a message while she was away stating what I thought and that this wasn't what I wanted.
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her: wow

me: listen, I don't want to talk now. Let me know when you get in from Preview and I'll call you

her: dont do this AlienAmpPharm

her: I have NO feelings for (we will call him Jerk)

her: I dont know how many times I will have to say it but I will say it untill I die if it will make you believe me

her: I am not going to do anything to mess this up

her: I love you too much

me: actions speak louder than words

her: what do you want me to do?

me: I don't want you to do anything. I know what's happening here and I'm not going to force anything because that only makes things worse

her: I just told him that he could come over to get that food, which he did and then left

her: what do you mean, he is trying to get back with me

me: I think I just need to end it before it gets worse for me

her: that is just not the case

her: are you serious
her: you dont want to be with me anymore
her: I dont love him
her: I love you
her: will you please call me right now
her: so we can talk

her: I dont love him AlienAmpPharm, I love you more than anything right now

me: You are not over him and I see clear as day what he is doing here

her: we werent ever serious like I am with you
her: I AM TOO OVER HIM
her: you can ask any of my friends
her: I dont love him anymore
her: I just dont
her: its plain as day

her: and I dont love him anymore, I just love you
her: I wont ever speak to him again

me: I'm not asking that

her: I am willing to do anything to make this work
her: I know
her: but I will do anything
her: anythign AlienAmpPharm
her: you are all I want
her: I wil do anything to keep you
her: please dont leave me
 
her: I mean, I am balling right now over this and I usually dont even cry over relationships
her: no AlienAmpPharm please dont do this please dont do this

me: but I'm not into games, neither on your end or his

her: it will work
her: I am not playing a game
her: I love you so much
her: please dont do this
her: I do love you
her: I am over him and have been for a very long time
her: I am totally in love with you
her: I will do anything to keep us together

me: him suggesting to Bethany that you shouldn't be with me should've automatically put a stop sign to you/him hanging out

her: I have never loved someone so much in my entirely life
her: okay that is fine
her: we wont hang out anymore

me: but instead you said how much you appreciate him being around

her: I promise
her: I appreciate him being a freind to me
her: I didntknow that you felt so strongly about us not hanging out
her: AlienAmpPharm, I didnt mean anything by it

me: a friend doesn't try to tear two people that are happy apart

her: please just believe me and trust me
her: okay you are right

me: he is sticking his head in business that's not his

her: I wont talk to him anymore
her: i guess i just didnt see that
her: it was stupid of me
her: i am so so sorry
her: please forgive me
her: i love you so so much
her: the feelings that i have for you are so real
her: i have NEVER felt this way about anyone and i dont want to loose you
her: i am not playing any games here
her: our relationship is not a game to me, it is real
her: and i want it tobe forever
her: please
her: AlienAmpPharm, I love you

me: see, I don't want ME to be the reason you don't talk to him. I'm not one to tell you who to & not to talk to. I'm not that kind of guy

her: I know you arent
her: but I dont want to talk to him
her: you arent telling me what to do here
her: i am doing it for OUR own good
her: b/c you are the one that i wil always want to be with
her: it is the righ thing to do and i see that now
her: please just dont let it be too late
her: please forgive me

me: at the same time I see what he is doing and the way you feel towards him. The only thing to do is for me to let you go your own way and make your own decisions

her: I have made my decision
her: I love you and want to be with you
her: this is my decsision and I have made it
her: I dont mess around with relationships
her: I am with you b/c i want ot be
her: b/c I love you
her: and care about you more than anything right now
her: please just forgive me for being stupid and not thinking
her: I love you
 
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as you can see she's a fast typer.

the rest of the IM was a repeat of the same.
Basically she wants me and not him. Words are indeed only words. Actions speak louder and I told her this.

I still don't know what to do. Do I gamble and risk it? or just end it now?
Relationships suck sometimes.

FXYGEL I need your advice!
 
She should come over right now for some hot & sweaty to seal the deal.
 
alien amp pharm said:
her: I mean, I am balling right now over this and I usually dont even cry over relationships
her: no AlienAmpPharm please dont do this please dont do this

me: but I'm not into games, neither on your end or his

her: it will work
her: I am not playing a game
her: I love you so much
her: please dont do this
her: I do love you
her: I am over him and have been for a very long time
her: I am totally in love with you
her: I will do anything to keep us together

me: him suggesting to Bethany that you shouldn't be with me should've automatically put a stop sign to you/him hanging out

her: I have never loved someone so much in my entirely life
her: okay that is fine
her: we wont hang out anymore

me: but instead you said how much you appreciate him being around

her: I promise
her: I appreciate him being a freind to me
her: I didntknow that you felt so strongly about us not hanging out
her: AlienAmpPharm, I didnt mean anything by it

me: a friend doesn't try to tear two people that are happy apart

her: please just believe me and trust me
her: okay you are right

me: he is sticking his head in business that's not his

her: I wont talk to him anymore
her: i guess i just didnt see that
her: it was stupid of me
her: i am so so sorry
her: please forgive me
her: i love you so so much
her: the feelings that i have for you are so real
her: i have NEVER felt this way about anyone and i dont want to loose you
her: i am not playing any games here
her: our relationship is not a game to me, it is real
her: and i want it tobe forever
her: please
her: AlienAmpPharm, I love you

me: see, I don't want ME to be the reason you don't talk to him. I'm not one to tell you who to & not to talk to. I'm not that kind of guy

her: I know you arent
her: but I dont want to talk to him
her: you arent telling me what to do here
her: i am doing it for OUR own good
her: b/c you are the one that i wil always want to be with
her: it is the righ thing to do and i see that now
her: please just dont let it be too late
her: please forgive me

me: at the same time I see what he is doing and the way you feel towards him. The only thing to do is for me to let you go your own way and make your own decisions

her: I have made my decision
her: I love you and want to be with you
her: this is my decsision and I have made it
her: I dont mess around with relationships
her: I am with you b/c i want ot be
her: b/c I love you
her: and care about you more than anything right now
her: please just forgive me for being stupid and not thinking
her: I love you
Maybe you should give her one more chance since she knows the whats been bothering, she can make a difference. If she fucks up this time then cut her loose.
 
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