Will the real Bikinimom please stand up, please stand up...

[The Shadow]

...ok

Explain this to me like I'm a fucking 4 year-old.



Since this divorce situation has been going on, your posts have come to resemble incoherent ramblings. You post for a day or two, disappear and then come back and contradict everything you previously said. I do not know if the stress from your marital situation is getting to you, but you REALLY need to find someone to talk to.

You know that I like you, always have...but DAMN woman you seem to be slipping further and further away from reality. Is this the result of the previous year's events? What have you been put thru to elicit such a change in character over the previous few months? Is this because of him?? Has HE done this to you?? How do you explain the duality of your posts?? IS it you posting??


I don't know what to think or who to believe any more.


I just want the old Kini back.

This new version is old already.

EF is full of neurotics, we do not need any more.

Posted with love.

Corn

 

[HighIntensity]

Corn

I think you are one of the best mods on the board, but how many threads about bm are we going to see tday,

somethings a miss, but until someone (herself or a close friend posts fact) its all speculation

 

[The Shadow]

Corn

I think you are one of the best mods on the board, but how many threads about bm are we going to see tday,

somethings a miss, but until someone (herself or a close friend posts fact) its all speculation

True.

The others are full of griping, but not at the source.

I'll call her out and find out what is up

 

[dballer]

Put her stupid ass on ignore!!!

 

[Latimer]

2+2=4

 

[havoc]

Does anyone know if I can still get Quisp cereal anywhere?

I'm wondering about TAB soda myself.

 

[The Shadow]

I'm wondering about TAB soda myself.

...or Rc.

 

[Bikini Mod]

In the words of my dear friend Ranger

"If my sanity were sanitary greatness would be mine"

 

[TheProject]

I'm wondering about TAB soda myself.

Places to get Tab:

http://home.epix.net/~tjwagner/tab.html#links

I'm here to help.

 

[havoc]

I'm here to help.

Yes you are, thanks

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

I'm wondering about TAB soda myself.

They sure do... I saw it yesterday at Publix (FLA largest grocery chain)

 

[TheProject]

Does anyone know if I can still get Quisp cereal anywhere?

And for DOT:

http://www.c-els.com/sfCatalog.asp?sn=E121420010030015

Man, it feels good to be useful.

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

http://www.easycoffee.com/tabmaxor3cas.html

You can only order 3 cases of tab at one time.. so dont be greedy

 

[havoc]

Man, it feels good to be useful.

Feels good to be a gangsta.

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

Dont hate the player... hate the G-A-M-E

 

[The Shadow]

In the words of my dear friend Ranger

"If my sanity were sanitary greatness would be mine"

What the fuck kind of answer is that???


And don't private chat my ass and spew this lyrical shit either.

Post it up here......why are you so nuts lately??

 

[TheProject]

Feels good to be a gangsta.

Wanna be a balla, shot calla
20 inch blades on the Impala

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

What the fuck kind of answer is that???


And don't private chat my ass and spew this lyrical shit either.

Post it up here......why are you so nuts lately??

she is what she eats....

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

Well, I can hear the ring ring ring
the telephone goes ring
Hello, Hello, but we're still gettin busy
pum pump pump - hua!
now your gettin' busy

I can slow it down so you can pump it (pump it)
better move it fast so you can thump it (thump it)
two balls and a bat, a pitcher wears a hat
slidin' into home base, trying to hit a home run, (hua!)
swing batta' batta' batta' batta' batta' swing!

 

[Bikini Mod]

WHY AM I SO NUTS YOU ASK?!?!?!?

Do you want the LONG list or the SHORT list?!?!?

In the last week I have been
STALKED
HARASSED
THREATENED
PROBABLY HACKED
I have REPEATEDLY been called a WHORE in front of my children
I have been told that my girls and I can go on WELFARE
I have danced for DOLLARS in DENTAL FLOSS no less
I will have SURGERY within the month
I CAN'T EAT see above
I CAN'T sleep - seel all of the above
I will most likely not get a DIVORCE until sometime in the fall IF EVER
EVERYTHING I have ever said or DONE is going to be laid out in OPEN COURT in an attempt to humiliate me

I am DONE. I have been the best mother and person that I can be and IT AIN'T GOOD ENOUGH so excuse the hell out of me if I am having a FUCKING breakdown!!!!!!!!!!!!

And NO I am not the real BIKINIMOM!!!!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

P.S. The least you could all do is PLAY THE FUCK ALONG with my fantasy!!!!!!!!

 

[dballer]

My knee hurts. In about 15 minutes.. I am gonna start posting weird shit.

 

[The Shadow]

Darlin' - I am truly sorry for what has happened. The fact that a man can denegrate the mother of his children in front of them in that way truly sickens me.

Let me tell ya - a "MAN" would never, ever, in a million fucking years do that to you, much less his children. I am ashamed that I am of the same gender.

Sweetie - you do the best you can do and let the chips fall where they may. The court will obviously see the real story when the time comes. Until then, you continue to do what is best for you and yoursand don't give a fat bastard about what anyone thinks.


You are treading a dnagerous path by letting the shit accumulate like this. You seem very borderline at this point, and I think that you know that.

Still - the duality of your posts bother me......

 

[havoc]

Although I always did well with reading comprehension, maybe my reading between the lines needs a little work.

Was her account hacked last night or not?

No, it was not, sad stuff here, sad stuff.

 

[The Shadow]

Although I always did well with reading comprehension, maybe my reading between the lines needs a little work.

Was her account hacked last night or not?

I just know that doesn't sound like Kini.

 

[ABall]

My knee hurts. In about 15 minutes.. I am gonna start posting weird shit.

hehe oh shit..........gotta love that avatar bro


A

 

[Bikini Mod]

Corn darlin' don't worry about me.
Ain't nothing going on that a little prozac/nubain/xanax cocktail won't fix
THAT WAS A JOKE PEOPLE!!!

Next you will all have me suicidal.
Been there - done that and I REFUSE to make it that easy on the bastard.

If I am going down in court it will be IN FUCKING FLAMES!!!!!
I used gear - SO FUCKING WHAT!!!
I practice the wiccan religion - KISS MY ASS!!!
I am bisexual - I DON'T FUCK ANYONE IN FRONT OF MY KIDS ASSHOLE!!!
I want to move out of state - WHO THE HELL WOULDN'T WANT TO GET AWAY FROM A PSYCHOTIC STALKING MOTHER FUCKER LIKE YOU (are you printing this ass wipe? I certainly hope so!!!)
I turned a few tricks - WELL BE A MAN AND START SUPPORTING YOUR CHILDREN FOR A CHANGE..... WE CAN'T EAT AIR!!!!
and no, I don't want anyone sending me money - that is not the point. I have people who give us money IT SIMPLY IS NOT THE PERSON WHO SHOULD BE HELPING TO SUPPORT HIS H-I-S CHILDREN!!!!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Oh, and does anyone know when fly-fishing season begins???

 

[MrMuscle]

fuck it

 

[The Shadow]

Corn darlin' don't worry about me.
Ain't nothing going on that a little prozac/nubain/xanax cocktail won't fix
THAT WAS A JOKE PEOPLE!!!

Next you will all have me suicidal.
Been there - done that and I REFUSE to make it that easy on the bastard.

If I am going down in court it will be IN FUCKING FLAMES!!!!!
I used gear - SO FUCKING WHAT!!!
I practice the wiccan religion - KISS MY ASS!!!
I am bisexual - I DON'T FUCK ANYONE IN FRONT OF MY KIDS ASSHOLE!!!
I want to move out of state - WHO THE HELL WOULDN'T WANT TO GET AWAY FROM A PSYCHOTIC STALKING MOTHER FUCKER LIKE YOU (are you printing this ass wipe? I certainly hope so!!!)
I turned a few tricks - WELL BE A MAN AND START SUPPORTING YOUR CHILDREN FOR A CHANGE..... WE CAN'T EAT AIR!!!!
and no, I don't want anyone sending me money - that is not the point. I have people who give us money IT SIMPLY IS NOT THE PERSON WHO SHOULD BE HELPING TO SUPPORT HIS H-I-S CHILDREN!!!!!

E - come on.


Do you NOT see how destuctive your cognative process has become??

Please...get some therapy....

 

[HighIntensity]

BK I have no right telling anyone what to do, but in the case it might be best to step away from the board for a while...

find something, even if it is your little ones smiles to be happy about...

 

[Bikini Mod]

In my state you have to get a FUCKING divorce to get child support and the longer you can put off the divorce the longer it is til you have to pay. AND DID I MENTION THAT HE LIED ON HIS INCOME TAX RETURN?????

He can no longer afford us anyway!!!!!!!!

 

[rudedawg]

Corn darlin' don't worry about me.
Ain't nothing going on that a little prozac/nubain/xanax cocktail won't fix
THAT WAS A JOKE PEOPLE!!!

I turned a few tricks - WELL BE A MAN AND START SUPPORTING YOUR CHILDREN FOR A CHANGE..... WE CAN'T EAT AIR!!!!

WOW......

 

[Bikini Mod]

E - come on.


Do you NOT see how destuctive your cognative process has become??

Please...get some therapy....

I CAN'T AFFORD THERAPY!!!!!!!!!
are you people not listening?!?!?!?
Hey Corn, I'll blow you for cash, then maybe I can get some help.

 

[The Shadow]

I CAN'T AFFORD THERAPY!!!!!!!!!
are you people not listening?!?!?!?
Hey Corn, I'll blow you for cash, then maybe I can get some help.

Normally I would be all over that blow comment for shits and giggles, but it actually makes me feel very sad.....

 

[havoc]

Normally I would be all over that blow comment for shits and giggles, but it actually makes me feel very sad.....

No shit, why are you still posting on here. A sad example to say the least.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Don't be sad Corn....
I have just FINALLY woke up from a long dark sleep.
I see everything with PERFECT CLARITY.
IT JUST DON'T FUCKING MATTER.

so what do 'ya say - I'll blow you for half price and that is my
final offer.

 

[rudedawg]

Don't be sad Corn....
I have just FINALLY woke up from a long dark sleep.
I see everything with PERFECT CLARITY.
IT JUST DON'T FUCKING MATTER.

so what do 'ya say - I'll blow you for half price and that is my
final offer.

This is not helping..........step back and give it a rest already.

 

[The Shadow]

so what do 'ya say - I'll blow you for half price and that is my
final offer.

That is EXACTLY your problem. You have been settling for half your entire married life.......

 

[Bikini Mod]

This is not helping..........step back and give it a rest already.

IT IS HELPING ME!!!!!
That's right, self-absorbed, narcissistic, dental floss dancing, whoring ME....get it??????

am I ME or am I not?????? Somebody told me once but I FUCKING fogot!!!!!!

 

[rudedawg]

IT IS HELPING ME!!!!!
That's right, self-absorbed, narcissistic, dental floss dancing, whoring ME....get it??????

am I ME or am I not?????? Somebody told me once but I FUCKING fogot!!!!!!

You really think it is helping you posting all this on an internet chat board?

 

[dballer]

If you have kids.. you are not you.. you are their Mom... get it?

 

[The Shadow]

IT IS HELPING ME!!!!!
That's right, self-absorbed, narcissistic, dental floss dancing, whoring ME....get it??????

am I ME or am I not?????? Somebody told me once but I FUCKING fogot!!!!!!

I would fucking rather you be someone who jacked her account than for this to be E.

Tell you what...

You got my cell....call me.

We'll find out who is who....

 

[MrMuscle]

reading this stuff is really hurting me. The bmom i know is sweet, caring and gentle. But whoever is writing this is crying out for help. i think you should step away from the computer, and seek help and guidance in your true friends.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Fine, I'll call you.
Are you paying for phone sex???????

 

[The Shadow]

Fine, I'll call you.
Are you paying for phone sex???????

Tell you what - call me - if it's you, we'll work something out about the therapy....

 

[curling]

If this is bikini mom(which I don't think it is) she has some real issues she needs to get help with. She is not herself. I miss the real(or old) bikini mom too. When you find out corn if it is really her would you post that dude. Thanks.

 

[rudedawg]

reading this stuff is really hurting me. The bmom i know is sweet, caring and gentle. But whoever is writing this is crying out for help. i think you should step away from the computer, and seek help and guidance in your true friends.

Maybe sweet caring and gentle.......but also used vulgar language very frequently and loosely...........who knows???????

 

[wyst]

B'mom: if it's the real you...lots of love and no judgement on what's happening to you, the things you're saying. But be careful, please. The kind of epiphany/meltdown you're describing in this and the other recent threads is the kind of thing that can cause people to lose their kids. The one thing you've always said is how important your girls are to you, so please, please be careful.

Good luck, and lots of love.

Wyst

 

[MrMuscle]

i didnt think this was for real..but read this:

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=135259&perpage=20&pagenumber=1

 

[Frackal]

Corn darlin' don't worry about me.
Ain't nothing going on that a little prozac/nubain/xanax cocktail won't fix
THAT WAS A JOKE PEOPLE!!!

Next you will all have me suicidal.
Been there - done that and I REFUSE to make it that easy on the bastard.

If I am going down in court it will be IN FUCKING FLAMES!!!!!
I used gear - SO FUCKING WHAT!!!
I practice the wiccan religion - KISS MY ASS!!!
I am bisexual - I DON'T FUCK ANYONE IN FRONT OF MY KIDS ASSHOLE!!!
I want to move out of state - WHO THE HELL WOULDN'T WANT TO GET AWAY FROM A PSYCHOTIC STALKING MOTHER FUCKER LIKE YOU (are you printing this ass wipe? I certainly hope so!!!)
I turned a few tricks - WELL BE A MAN AND START SUPPORTING YOUR CHILDREN FOR A CHANGE..... WE CAN'T EAT AIR!!!!
and no, I don't want anyone sending me money - that is not the point. I have people who give us money IT SIMPLY IS NOT THE PERSON WHO SHOULD BE HELPING TO SUPPORT HIS H-I-S CHILDREN!!!!!

Holy shit.

 

[bigschweeler]

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=130464

 

[MrMuscle]

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=130464

good call schweeler..her posts there looks nothing like the posts in any of these other threads.

 

[bigschweeler]

It wouldn't be that hard to imitate her posts. After reading a number of them, because I used to enjoy her perspective on things, I think I could do a reasonable impersonation.

And if she really did flip her lid, I wonder if she would be expressing it on an message board.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

I think its really her............shes just having a break down

unfortunatly, a chat board is the last place I would want to share such intimate details with my life such as she has

 

[bigschweeler]

I think its really her............shes just having a break down

unfortunatly, a chat board is the last place I would want to share such intimate details with my life such as she has

Which makes you wonder what else she is doing in "real" life?

 

[Frackal]

I think its really her............shes just having a break down

unfortunatly, a chat board is the last place I would want to share such intimate details with my life such as she has

I agree...in the 'shemale' post on the women's board temple mentioned something that certainly makes it sound like it's really her.....sounds like her hubby is a pseudo-faggot to me.

Bikinimom, from what I've seen on these boards, is a better person then this....she will hopefully recover eventually.

 

[The Shadow]

It's a sad scene no matter how you slice it up...

 

[Night Fly]

I CAN'T AFFORD THERAPY!!!!!!!!!
are you people not listening?!?!?!?
Hey Corn, I'll blow you for cash, then maybe I can get some help.

OH lord... lol

E...you have my number...and for some reason....I understand what everyone else thinks are incoherent ramblings. I, for one...think you are a very strong woman who has put up with enough shit to last you 5 lifetimes...maybe more. Everyone here on the board can speculate all they want...but you are not going to sit here and just through out your life story every time someone questions the way you post.

I give you credit for trying to handle things the way you have. One person can only do so much and that's it. You know I will be here to listen if you ever need to talk. I hope things start to pick up for you.

XOXO

 

[The Shadow]

Should we assume she didn't call you.

Actually - my cell dropped a call after i picked up a few minutes ago.

Caller id was blocked, so could have been her, I don't know.

If it was, she'll call back

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

This is like reality TV... I dont buy it for a second...

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

Don't be sad Corn....
I have just FINALLY woke up from a long dark sleep.
I see everything with PERFECT CLARITY.
IT JUST DON'T FUCKING MATTER.

so what do 'ya say - I'll blow you for half price and that is my
final offer.

Hmmm....half price eh?? Do you swallow??

 

[WODIN]

Isn't bkmom in New Jersey?

 

[smallmovesal]

kini i am aware what's up and i will just say i disagree

 

[The Shadow]

She did call.


Said that she was going to take some time and think things over.
I told her that I thought it was in her best interest not to post for a while...at least until she gets some perspective. She agrees that therapy might be an option at this point.



For anyone, and there will be someone, who doubts she called. If she posts agin in like 2 minutes - you'll know I lied...

 

[The Shadow]

Isn't bkmom in New Jersey?

Yes. Check pm

 

[Milhouse]

Wow!!!
THis shit reminds of the simpsons when Apu and Homer go to India and the Head Office of the quickie mart

Quickie Mart Guru: I vill grant you 3 questions
Homer(Interupting): Wow are you really the head of all quickie marts?
Quickie Mart Guru: yes
Homer: Really?
Quickie Mart Guru:Yes
Homer: No really?
Quickie: Yes, dat is all, thank you come again.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Take up drinking.

 

[The Shadow]

I thought NJ divorce and custody laws were the same as NY. Just the % is different.

Don't know. She said something about a problem with child support....

 

[fistfullofsteel]

i am really sad about reading this. she is in a really crummy situation and i am really sad because she deserves better, much better.

 

[ZenMachine]

I don't know the whole story here, but Child Support can be tricky due to the fact that it doesn't sound like there is a custody agreement.

Bikinimom still needs to contact the child support enforcement agency for which ever state she resides. Actually she may want to consider applying for some sort of financial assistance (food stamps etc) if she qualifies. If you do that then the State you reside in takes a vested interest in collecting your child support as they are then owed a portion of the money.

All the way around sounds like a bad situation.

Zen

 

[Bikini Mod]

Corn, Thank you for talking me down today. I'll admit that maybe I was a LITTLE out of control.

I DID CALL AND MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH MY THERAPIST. So everyone can just RELAX ALREADY.

Contrary to popular opinion
I AM NOT CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!

I am simply
MAD AS HELL

If he want to parade reams and reams of paper printed off of this site and use MY WORDS against me then so be it. The judge didn't want to see it before and he probably won't want to see it again.

Somebody has to take a FUCKING stand for the women who are put through the SHIT everyday.
I AM TAKING THAT STAND

If anyone thinks for ONE minute that they are going to take my girls from me because of ANYTHING that I posted on an INTERNET CHAT SITE all I have to say to them it

JUST TRY IT!!!!

PROVE that I have used ANY illegal drug
PROVE that I have prostituted myself
PROVE that I am bi-sexual
PROVE that my religious beliefs do not make me a fit mother
PROVE who I have fucked and when
PROVE that I am mentally unstable

Even if I am ALL of those things it doesn't have JACKSHIT to do with my abilities to take care of the children that came out of MY BODY!!!!!

I FEED them
I WASH their clothes
I CLEAN their house
I MEET with their teachers
I VOLUNTEER in their classrooms
I GO on their field trips
I TUCK them into bed at night.
I EXPLAIN to them the best how none of this SHIT has anything to do with them
I MAKE the arrangement for summer camp
I KISS them when they hurt and wipe away their tears


So.....SUPERDAD.....

TAKE ME DOWN

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

shut up already.

Stop promoting yourself as some righteous, standup mother. You are not taking a stand for shit. You just want people to notice you since your husband was a piece of shit. Yes, he probably ignored you most of your married life, but oh well. You let it be done. You could have left years ago, but you decided to stick around. Only you know why you chose this course of action and telling eveyone on this board is not going to make a damn. Now instead of posting on this board all day, maybe you should get out and find a real job that will allow you to adquately take care of your children.

 

[Star]

I will say he would have to have the burden of proof to the real identity of bikinimom.........anyone can register and type whatever they want while saying it is her. Don't think you have much to worry about in the court system but I would be a little leary as far as your job. I used to be a dancer (for 10 yrs) and I saw more than a few women lose their children because of their occupation........all he has to do is set you up by sending in someone to where you work and let him proposition you.....if you go for it he has got a star witness in the court room.

Star

 

[Puc]

Corn, Thank you for talking me down today. I'll admit that maybe I was a LITTLE out of control.

I DID CALL AND MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH MY THERAPIST. So everyone can just RELAX ALREADY.

Contrary to popular opinion
I AM NOT CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!

I am simply
MAD AS HELL

If he want to parade reams and reams of paper printed off of this site and use MY WORDS against me then so be it. The judge didn't want to see it before and he probably won't want to see it again.

Somebody has to take a FUCKING stand for the women who are put through the SHIT everyday.
I AM TAKING THAT STAND

If anyone thinks for ONE minute that they are going to take my girls from me because of ANYTHING that I posted on an INTERNET CHAT SITE all I have to say to them it

JUST TRY IT!!!!

PROVE that I have used ANY illegal drug
PROVE that I have prostituted myself
PROVE that I am bi-sexual
PROVE that my religious beliefs do not make me a fit mother
PROVE who I have fucked and when
PROVE that I am mentally unstable

Even if I am ALL of those things it doesn't have JACKSHIT to do with my abilities to take care of the children that came out of MY BODY!!!!!

I FEED them
I WASH their clothes
I CLEAN their house
I MEET with their teachers
I VOLUNTEER in their classrooms
I GO on their field trips
I TUCK them into bed at night.
I EXPLAIN to them the best how none of this SHIT has anything to do with them
I MAKE the arrangement for summer camp
I KISS them when they hurt and wipe away their tears


So.....SUPERDAD.....

TAKE ME DOWN

not true... civil case. no proof beyond reasonable doubt required.

 

[Puc]

where is musclebrains ?

this thread is screaming his name... loud...

 

[kronk]

not true... civil case. no proof beyond reasonable doubt required.

No that statement is untrue. Civil case yes, however this is a divorce and custody proceeding. In the state that Kini lives, substaintial proff of these aligations must be show, otherwise it is simply hearse and an attempt to slander her.

This would be filed in a District court and proof must be show in custody cases. If you are an attorney or have a background in law I am amazed that you would think he wouldn't need to "prove" it. Of course he would, and considering that all of this is on an internet chat board, there is no proof that any of these claims are made by the petitioner in the case. This isn't a case where reasonable doubt have any bearing, this would be case for her ex to prove that she is an unfit mother. In domestic case like this, substantial proof must be shown, especially when it involves the primary custodian.

 

[Puc]

No that statement is untrue. Civil case yes, however this is a divorce and custody proceeding. In the state that Kini lives, substaintial proff of these aligations must be show, otherwise it is simply herse and an attempt to slander her.

This would be filed in a District court and proof must be show in custody cases. If you are an attorney or have a background in law I am amazed that you would think he wouldn't need to "prove" it. Of course he would, and considering that all of this is on an internet chat board, there is no proof that any of these claims are made by the petitioner in the case. This isn't a case where reasonable doubt have any bearing, this would be case for her ex to prove that she is an unfit mother. In domestic case like this, substantial proof must be shown, especially when it involves the primary custodian.

stand corrected...

I don't have a background in law. I am a application developer (go .net). This brings me to your second point, which is incorrect.
Trace an ip to a service provider, cross-reference the logs of that service provider, trace it back to a modem. This of course pertains to the privacy agreement for the service provider, etc...

Now, once you have the computer which the post was written from, you have the keys to the kingdom. What could she possible argue, that her kids did this to get back at her? that a robber took the time to write posts over the course of an entire day?

 

[The Shadow]

E - you have my number if you need anything.

 

[kronk]

stand corrected...

I don't have a background in law. I am a application developer (go .net). This brings me to your second point, which is incorrect.
Trace an ip to a service provider, cross-reference the logs of that service provider, trace it back to a modem. This of course pertains to the privacy agreement for the service provider, etc...

Now, once you have the computer which the post was written from, you have the keys to the kingdom. What could she possible argue, that her kids did this to get back at her? that a robber took the time to write posts over the course of an entire day?

True and very good point. However, it would be very easy to argue this as there is still not a shread of proof that she was the one that typed it. Maybe her ex broke in the home, maybe the neighbor came over, maybe it was her brother, sister, anyone that has ever had access to her home at anypoint....bottom line would be that she would have to admit it, or the would have to have video of her doing it. Bottom line is that it was be extreamly difficult to ever prove and the judge would never even consider it.

Great point btw and I wasnt trying to be an ass or anything. I actually went to law school and have done some divorce work, however, now I work in software lmao!

 

[Puc]

If it were me (thank god not)

I would admit to making the posts. I would argue that I was spamming the boards with false stories because of a fit of rage, and I knew my X was looking.

----

here musclebrains ...

here musclebrains ...

come get some...

good boy, good boy !!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

I'll GLADLY admit that I said every word of it!!!

 

[Jimsbbc]

Bmom-


You know who you are and what you've got to do. Don't let anyone stand in your way! I honestly hope everything works out for the best.

 

[Puc]

I still believe in you.

(even though you did disagree with the age difference between me and daised. I did/do love her, and I would never do to her what was done to you... I couldn't hurt her. Hell, the pedestal I kept her on was so high I could hardly reach her.)

Your travails bind you to humanity.

I have had a nervous breakdown, an eating disorder, I've been in jail. Others gawk in wonder at my mistakes, too, while the stories are told. People sit back and tell themselves "I wouldn't have done that."

They will be in that darkest spot in turn. I honestly think that is what life is -- a big round-robin where everyone takes a turn fucking up.

anyway, just keep believing in yourself. ok?

 

[J-DAM]

PROVE that I am mentally unstable

Uhh.. this incessant banter isn't helping that case.

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

p-s-y-c-h-o

Your kids should be taken away until you get a grip.. And I hope you were not serious about having sex for money.

 

[NY Muscle]

bmom does ur ex know about this web page and you screen name?

the only thing im sure he thinks he is gonna have the upper hand on is proving you to be an ufit mother (IM NOT SAYING U ARE) just saying thats the most he can claim by your posts, cause there is nothing wrong or illegal or will reduce your capacity to raise 3 kids because you are fucking horny lol
have fun just dont be stupid and get caught up in the lifetstlye...because ive seen some nasty shit..1st comes the sex, sex parties, 3somes 4 somes. then come the DRUGS and you admitted to eb addicted to AAS and other similar ones so DO NOT fuck around, the next step is XTC, K, GHB, cocaine not saying u havent doen these but man dont get caught up in the shit i knwo way too many girls who have.

 

[The Shadow]

Not to be a dick, but should someone who is obviously not all there at the moment, be a mod and have access to all the information that mods do? That would concern me a little bit.

I concur wholeheartedly......

 

[MrMuscle]

Not to be a dick, but should someone who is obviously not all there at the moment, be a mod and have access to all the information that mods do? That would concern me a little bit.

then we'd have to get rid of all the mods..especially those guys WODIN, Havoc and Cornholio. Those guys lost it before they even had it.

 

[The Shadow]

then we'd have to get rid of all the mods..especially those guys WODIN, Havoc and Cornholio. Those guys lost it before they even had it.

True my friend....vey sadly true.

 

[rudedawg]

Not to be a dick,

But you can't help yourself..... LMAO

I agree.......no way someone as loose a cannon as BM right now should have access to anything.

 

[dballer]

But I guess it does not matter that she is a psycho and she has access to all of out IP's... as long as she gives us karma.. and shows us some ass pictures.

So.. what are YOU gonna do about it.. e-mail George??

So.. we have a loose cannon on our hands.. and insted of doing somthing I think I will make a post about a new online quiz to see what my favorite candy was when I was a kid.

 

[The Shadow]

But I guess it does not matter that she is a psycho and she has access to all of out IP's... as long as she gives us karma.. and shows us some ass pictures.

So.. what are YOU gonna do about it.. e-mail George??

So.. we have a loose cannon on our hands.. and insted of doing somthing I think I will make a post about a new online quiz to see what my favorite candy was when I was a kid.

I pm'd George about it and he is working on a temp solution to the concerns.....give him a day or so

 

[The Shadow]

Rolos and Sweet Tarts

 

[dballer]

I still gotta go with Clark bars.. and Zagnuts....



oh yeah.. and I like Rolos.

 

[Monkey_Power]

Good Luck BikiniMOM,

Realism:

If I could offer you some advice. The fact that you are having a nervious breakdown and the fact that you are having difficult time financially should be even more of a reason to let your husband take care of your kids TEMPORARILY. Look, how can you take care of your kids, when you can't even take care of yourself. No offence please, but i very much understand that you are going through a great deal of pain. I will never ever be able to grasp it fully however because I am not in your shoes. I really believe that llittle kids are very influential and can detect/absorb negative feelings very quickly. Try your hardest not to show them how much you are hurting. God forbid, your ex-bastard might put them up on the stand to see the effects or ask if they have seen or detected any problems.


TRUTH

I really hope everything works out for you BikinMoM. YOu seem to be a very strong and supportive mother fighting very hard for your kid. I honestly believe you would be a greater care-taker then that ex-husband of yours.

Be Careful The Problem:

I am sure during your divorce trial your ex-husband must have tried everything under the sun to ruin your credibility as a person and a mother. I am sure the topics of steroids was brought up into the picture. Examples: "Did you take steroids when you were had custody of your kids? Have you taken steroids when you had custody of your kids? Have you taken steroids while you were around/interacting with your kids? Did you take steroids ever? etc etc"

You must have obviously said "No". However the problem now becomes, you are admiting publically that you actually have done steroids. The problem now becomes that you may have lied under oath. Not Good.

Also, The majority of courts have not been very supportive of SAme-SEX marriages/unions/adoptions because they feel it creates a "unsafe" lifestyle for the childs benifit. By saying your Bi-sexual you open a window of possibility for such a union to develop and that may complicate issues a bit. You are practicing the very thing that courts dont look to kindly at.

The CURE for the problem! (Cuz i love you!)

Take my advice. Say that you were hacked or someone else obtained your password or something. THus making everythign you said utterly useless.

Advice:

Return to the Truth.

Questions to Make you SMILE!

Your ex-husband has a small dick Riight!!


Fight the Power.... MONKEY style

 

[Bikini Mod]

shut up already.

Stop promoting yourself as some righteous, standup mother. You are not taking a stand for shit. You just want people to notice you since your husband was a piece of shit. Yes, he probably ignored you most of your married life, but oh well. You let it be done. You could have left years ago, but you decided to stick around. Only you know why you chose this course of action and telling eveyone on this board is not going to make a damn. Now instead of posting on this board all day, maybe you should get out and find a real job that will allow you to adquately take care of your children.

*sticks fingers in ears*

La-la-la-la-la

"I can't hear yoooooooooooouuuu!"

Put me on ignore....
Works for me, asshole

 

[KEL]

Put me on ignore....
Works for me, asshole

not an option

OTOH-
I'm not convinced this is BM.

Please PM me if u want an explanation Kel...

 

[Bikini Mod]

I will say he would have to have the burden of proof to the real identity of bikinimom.........anyone can register and type whatever they want while saying it is her. Don't think you have much to worry about in the court system but I would be a little leary as far as your job. I used to be a dancer (for 10 yrs) and I saw more than a few women lose their children because of their occupation........all he has to do is set you up by sending in someone to where you work and let him proposition you.....if you go for it he has got a star witness in the court room.

Star

Star you are correct, it is sad but true that MANY women have lost custody or support money (because we ALL know how much $ dancers REALLY make ) by biases ASSHOLE judges... HOWEVER - I NEVER hid how I was going to support my children - the most amount of money for the least amount of TIME. I TOLD my girls and I TOLD my lawyer. My IDIOT EX thought he had A BIG smoking gun in court when he said that I was NEGLECTING the children to "pursue a career in exoctic dancing".

STUPID MOTHERFUCKER!!!!

First off - ANYONE who would believe for A SECOND that a waaaaaaaaay over 20-year-old mother of four would WANT to earn a living in 7 inch platform heals and fucking dental floss, allowing strange men to touch her breasts FOR A FUCKING DOLLAR has got to be RETARDED or MY EX.... wait a minute that is one in the same. My bad.

Secondly - Would it be better if a woman w/no real job experience and no college degree got a job babysitting in a gym for instance or taking a job as a receptionist for 20K - while paying SOMEONE ELSE to RASIE her kids?

Thirdly - IT IS ONLY A JOB FOR FUCK'S SAKE. I am sure that my ex's attorney (who is a mother herself) tells her children EXACTLY what she does during the course of her work day. I can just hear the table conversation now.

"Yes Johnny, I bill TENS OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS to hate-driven men who will do ANYTHING to get out of supporting their children knowing FULL WELL that they are stalking thier ex's, making thier lives hell, in turn perhaps PERMANENTLY PSYCHOLOGICALLY DAMAGING the children involved. Nevermind that they will already have to bear the pain of a decayed relationship between parents whom THEY BOTH LOVE DEARLY. All I care about is the fact that I can have matching BMW's with YOUR daddy and am able to give you GOBS of superfluous "STUFF". Now run along with the Nanny because mommy has to go and bill some more hours to the retarded,up-to-his-ass-in-hock-income-tax-cheating-money-hiding daddy so that he can claim poverty and give ME HIS MONEY instead of paying for HIS CHILDREN to go to summer camp and have somewhat of a life while his daddy and mommy work together, but separately - AND THEY BOTH WORK LESS - BUT HAVE MORE FOR THIER CHILDREN"

*kisses Johnny while never once looking up from bullshit book of computer print out paperwork*

"Don't worry honey, The Nanny will tuck you in tonight as she has every night since you slid out of me......"

"Me and that daddy will get THAT WHORE exwife of his and make her pay!"

PS-

The judges EXACT WORDS were:

"Some appreciate the Bolshoi. Others appreciate other forms of dance. Bottom line - her children are in school - LET HER WORK. Any judge that would be prejuidiced against a mother who earns a living LEGALLY should RECUSE HIMSELF IMMEDIATELY."

I have NEVER hidden what clubs I have worked at and when I am working. Matter of fact, have invited the ex to come and count the bills in my G-string at the end of the night.


......so yall haters were sayin?

 

[MrMuscle]

Dont give her more to work with for gods sake