the guilt

[bigbox]

I remember you... you had the gf who was with you since you were butt fucking ugly and has stuck with you through your transformation. I remember the thread about you wanting to break up with her because you were so fucking ugly and didnt used to be able to get laid, and now that you have a few girls looking at you differently you want to toss this one to the side. she deserves SO much better. youre a piece of work who deserves to have kids with a hooker. hope the worst for ya!!! may as well spit in your gf's face.

 

[mobro]

You want advice from someone that has been there huh? OPEN YOUR EYES! We have been there, or may be I should just speak for myself here. I am dealing with the consequences of exaclty what you are thinking about doing! I had the same exact feeling to run out and do what my buds were doing. Stupidest thing that I have ever done. Might have lost the best thing that ever happened to me plus my house! Worse than that, I am dealing with myself and being humiliated over what I have done. What kind of example did I set to those that looked up to me? don't think anybody looks up to you huh? Look a little harder bud. You went back to her and felt the way you did because you love her dude. The other temptations are human nature. It is up to us how we deal with them. If you remove yourself from the internet sites the temptaions go too. TX bondsman has already told you the best advice about your relationship. Improve on what you have. She loves you too man. She will be more than willing, and probably really enjoy, changing things up. You just might be surprised what you find in there. You haven't even tried it. Neither did I. You would have no problem making the right decision if you were in my position or the position of most of the people that have already given you advice on here. They know what they are talking about because of those experiences. To bad we are usually to dumb unless we go through this ourselves. You know what is best, so do it. You will be happy with yourself most of all.

 

[ponyfitness]

Frankly if you're going to feel guilty about it then you shouldn't bother cheating because the guilt will eat away at you until you confess, or you will make a screwup with your story and get caught. If you're going to cheat anyway, just make sure that there is no chance you will get caught. What she never knows won't hurt her. It will only hurt you but that's another thing.

Put together a good story about where you're going to be for that two days. Make sure at some point to call your girl and pretend like you're not banging some other skank in a hotel room. I'm assuming the other girl knows you have a girlfriend, if she doesn't then you might have problems. Don't let emotions rule you - if it's just sex, then treat it like that and leave without any emotional attachment. Then cut off all communication with the other girl and make sure she has no way of contacting you that your girlfriend might find. Then forget about it.

 

[Stefka]

I just dont think markshark will be able to make up a good story and pretend like he is going to not go bang some chick in a hotel room. He isnt experienced enough for cold heartless cheating. He will probably get physically ill from the guilt and end up telling the girlfriend everything.

 

[Mr. Black]

Post up pics of this chick and then I'll tell you what to do...

 

[Guni]

This thread is some drama queen shit and its pointless. There's no ifs and buts, you either cheat or don't cheat. If you know its wrong, then don't do it. If you're gonna do it anyway, then be an ass an do it, just stop whining about it.
Sorry to rant on you, but you're a weak minded drama queen.

 

[markshark]

im calling it off. and i did lie before. when i first started dating this girl i was fucking someone else for a few months at the same time because the relationship was just dating. ive also dated and messed around with other girls behind her back before. its just that im more serious now so its worse.

 

[monti3333]

Just fuck her you pussy.

haha thats whats up right there

 

[bigbox]

just dump your girl so she can find someone who actually deserves her. you deserve to catch an std by the skank you want.

 

[ProtienFiend]

I agree with those that said to break up with her if you are considering this. If you don't do it now, you're going to want to do it later. Obviously your current girl isnt the one for you.

Be single and do your thing. I also like the "send your friend" idea though. Man, thats so sweet. Or you can just bring him with you... Less guilt?