So This is Why I havent been around...

[CrazyK]

Once again division…. I read your first few posts on here and I couldn’t read anymore… yes there are lots of bad women but there are also lots of bad men…

You can not generalize all women.. I am in my early 20’s and I KNOW what I want… You have to look at each female separately.. I have been on my own since I was 14. I got married to my high school sweetheart in vegas and was working on getting it annulled days later... And I can admit that I had the grass is greener feeling and left him… I am just about to turn 23 and I know the EXACT man I want.. But in this case, he has left me… I guess karma is always the winner…

Men play the same games… And they also like the bad girls..

It is really sad to say but if you naturally an honest, open, and loving person… No matter if your male or female assholes will take advantage of your feelings and stomp on your heart…

Relationships SUCK… diamondcutcows I am sorry to have jacked your thread but I had to say something…

I really feel your pain because I am going through the same feelings right now.. I know how much you are hurting and it is a horrible thing… But at least you can say that you know what real love is. A lot of people are emotionally retarded and can’t open up their heart enough to allow themselves to feel.

I totally understand that you love this lady and you want the situation to stay the way it is.. But you are forced to face the reality of the situation. And No one can sugar coat it for you DATING SUCKS!!

This is something I learned in my psychology class that might help you see the scientific approach this..

There are the 5 steps of grieving process through a bad situation

1. denial - which you have already gone through that stage
2. anger - I think you have been though this one as well
3. bargining - you are probably between 3-4 trying to figure out this situation
4. depression – the obvious one
5. acceptance -- this is when you will accept the result and move on… which is the hardest phase.. But you are already half way through so you don’t have to much more to go…

Good LUCK…. Just remember that karma always comes around so she will get hers.. And you will some day find someone that is truly deserving of you.

Maybe not all, but a much bigger % of white american girls really have relationship issues. I've given up on them, and won't take any more chances. It's like they just have to have something to dramatize in there lives and/or tend to some weird ass drug/alcohol addiction.

 

[wutangnomo]

Now that's revenge.....do all this while she's still living there?

Damn, Wu-Wu.......you're an evil lil' bastard.



DIV

One thing that pisses me off more and more now is the weakness of men. Why do men put themselves through shit??? There are an infinite number of women out there it seems, yet men will want to be with the dirty rat bitch whore who screwed them over. Come on guys, have some dignity and pick up your balls already. We've all been hurt. We've all gone through our share of relationship woos. One thing I will NEVER allow is letting some selfish bitch walk away with my self-respect and dignity.

When a woman walks all over you and you continue to want her, that means shes got you by the balls and has stolen your very manhood. Don't be like that pathetic guy who will still marry the broad that lied about being abducted.

 

[doublebicep]

One thing that pisses me off more and more now is the weakness of men. Why do men put themselves through shit??? There are an infinite number of women out there it seems, yet men will want to be with the dirty rat bitch whore who screwed them over. Come on guys, have some dignity and pick up your balls already. We've all been hurt. We've all gone through our share of relationship woos. One thing I will NEVER allow is letting some selfish bitch walk away with my self-respect and dignity.

When a woman walks all over you and you continue to want her, that means shes got you by the balls and has stolen your very manhood. Don't be like that pathetic guy who will still marry the broad that lied about being abducted.

Well put wutangnomo.

 

[krishna]

Once again division…. I read your first few posts on here and I couldn’t read anymore… yes there are lots of bad women but there are also lots of bad men…

You can not generalize all women.. I am in my early 20’s and I KNOW what I want… You have to look at each female separately.. I have been on my own since I was 14. I got married to my high school sweetheart in vegas and was working on getting it annulled days later... And I can admit that I had the grass is greener feeling and left him… I am just about to turn 23 and I know the EXACT man I want.. But in this case, he has left me… I guess karma is always the winner…

Men play the same games… And they also like the bad girls..

It is really sad to say but if you naturally an honest, open, and loving person… No matter if your male or female assholes will take advantage of your feelings and stomp on your heart…

Relationships SUCK… diamondcutcows I am sorry to have jacked your thread but I had to say something…

I really feel your pain because I am going through the same feelings right now.. I know how much you are hurting and it is a horrible thing… But at least you can say that you know what real love is. A lot of people are emotionally retarded and can’t open up their heart enough to allow themselves to feel.

I totally understand that you love this lady and you want the situation to stay the way it is.. But you are forced to face the reality of the situation. And No one can sugar coat it for you DATING SUCKS!!

This is something I learned in my psychology class that might help you see the scientific approach this..

There are the 5 steps of grieving process through a bad situation

1. denial - which you have already gone through that stage
2. anger - I think you have been though this one as well
3. bargining - you are probably between 3-4 trying to figure out this situation
4. depression – the obvious one
5. acceptance -- this is when you will accept the result and move on… which is the hardest phase.. But you are already half way through so you don’t have to much more to go…

Good LUCK…. Just remember that karma always comes around so she will get hers.. And you will some day find someone that is truly deserving of you.

I bet you thought you THOUGHT you knew what you wanted when you were younger too. Things always change; people change. Marriage is expecially hard these days because it's so easy to get a divorce. You may know what you want now, but that doesn't mean it won't CHANGE in the future. Marriage is a joke these days. Time to be a player partner!

 

[Makavelli]

Sorry to hear that Diamond. You're a solid bro and I hope everything works out for the best. I had to break up with the love of my life last year because she was too immature. Wanted to go out partying etc. And she was 27! The break woke her up real quick. Soon she was begging to be with me again. I ignored her for months, but my feelings came back and now we're together again. I'm happy, she's grown up a lot and happy. So it will work out how it's supossed to. Even though it sucks right now.

 

[marshallmadman]

The best way to get over a woman is to get under another one. Be careful, though. Be careful of how you treat the next one. Little Marshall had a gurl really fuck him over a few years ago, and fucked his head up bad. A few months later Marshall meets the absolute girl of his dreams. Because he was still so fucked up over this other dumb bitch, he shit on the girl of his dreams a lot and lost her. Don't go doin' that. Keep it to strictly non-serious shit until you are sure that you got your head screwed on straight.

 

[krishna]

Once again division…. I read your first few posts on here and I couldn’t read anymore… yes there are lots of bad women but there are also lots of bad men…

You can not generalize all women.. I am in my early 20’s and I KNOW what I want… You have to look at each female separately.. I have been on my own since I was 14. I got married to my high school sweetheart in vegas and was working on getting it annulled days later... And I can admit that I had the grass is greener feeling and left him… I am just about to turn 23 and I know the EXACT man I want.. But in this case, he has left me… I guess karma is always the winner…

Men play the same games… And they also like the bad girls..

It is really sad to say but if you naturally an honest, open, and loving person… No matter if your male or female assholes will take advantage of your feelings and stomp on your heart…

Relationships SUCK… diamondcutcows I am sorry to have jacked your thread but I had to say something…

I really feel your pain because I am going through the same feelings right now.. I know how much you are hurting and it is a horrible thing… But at least you can say that you know what real love is. A lot of people are emotionally retarded and can’t open up their heart enough to allow themselves to feel.

I totally understand that you love this lady and you want the situation to stay the way it is.. But you are forced to face the reality of the situation. And No one can sugar coat it for you DATING SUCKS!!

This is something I learned in my psychology class that might help you see the scientific approach this..

There are the 5 steps of grieving process through a bad situation

1. denial - which you have already gone through that stage
2. anger - I think you have been though this one as well
3. bargining - you are probably between 3-4 trying to figure out this situation
4. depression – the obvious one
5. acceptance -- this is when you will accept the result and move on… which is the hardest phase.. But you are already half way through so you don’t have to much more to go…

Good LUCK…. Just remember that karma always comes around so she will get hers.. And you will some day find someone that is truly deserving of you.

I wasn't trying to flame you by the way. Your post was pretty good. Never hurts to mention the stages of loss and grieving. I'm actually on my last year of undergrad for my psychology and philosophy degrees.

 

[BOOEY]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. These people cannot be trusted

So true

 

[MUSTANG_18]

I don't think there is anything left to say that has not already been said. I am very sorry to hear this whole situation bud, you seem like a good guy with a solid head on your shoulders. I know it's hard now but time heals all wounds and the sun will always shine another day. Surround yourself with good friends, family and just try to go out and live life to the fullest.
BTW...Once a cheater, always a cheater! Keep that in mind when she comes crawling back (she will) I have found the saying "you don't know what you got until it's gone" to be very true on more then one occasion.

M18

 

[courtneybcca]

I wasn't trying to flame you by the way. Your post was pretty good. Never hurts to mention the stages of loss and grieving. I'm actually on my last year of undergrad for my psychology and philosophy degrees.

I didn't think you were flaming me at all...


At the time I knew the relationship was doomed because I felt like I was settling on him.. because I didn't want to be alone, and because I love him... people dont judge people if you have no idea of there history...

that boy is still in my life and I consider him family.. I was confused at the time about WHAT kind of Love I have for him... He will always be in my life and we will always be close but we should not be together...

and I do know what I want now... I have dated A LOT and found out exactly what I DONT WANT.. weeded my way down through the men and different personalities that way first.. so much so that I thought the man of my dreams didn't exist or COULDN't exist... I have now found one VERY CLOSE to my ideal with one exception... but I know no one is perfect.. so we will see.. But at least if it doesn't work out I know that men like this exist so it is not all for a loss... And I know that I still have the ability to love even though I have been hurt so many times...