So This is Why I havent been around...

[LVTitan]

BabyTitan LIVES!!!!!

Word of advice to women: If you want to get back at your BF, do not go sleeping around behind his back, that could be the end of a relationship right there.




DIV

nothing takes your mind off old pussy like new pussy !!

hey road dog divvie, went to dinner with HER last night (it's alright i'm strong willed this time) and just was COOl with her. she tells me she's been sleeping in the other room, and her relationship w/new guy is over. we have dinner and a few drinks , she tells me love me and wishes we didn't fuck things up so bad , but she knows that it is unrepairable and just wants to be close to me on the DL. no one to know that we talk, no relationship, just still be friends. we go out for drinks and desert later, and she practically jumps me in the elevator, we carried on like a couple, then i gave her a kiss and got her all moist and sent her home... i told her i had fun, but made it clear i was going to date other women and she would never be my girlfriend again anytime in the next 10 years. she said she was cool with that, and said thanks for just being nice to her... and you know what ? i did have fun, but i had NO desire to be back in a relationship with her... i guess i AM over her.
sorry for the hijack diamond... but it DOES get better

 

[AristotleBC]

This is ironic from that nomarriage.com site:

Doesn't it sound EXACTLY like the excuses some of these women (Courtbeca etc) have been giving for the girl that cheated on him:

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nomarriage.com

Cheating.
If a married man cheats, he's the scum of the earth…A selfish jerk who has jeopardized the family unit. However, when the woman cheats, she's conveniently portrayed as the victim. Poor thing. It's for her empowerment, or to help her self-esteem. Worse yet, her cheating can be the man's fault. How? He doesn't compliment her like her new man does. Or he works too much. (Yes, the man who is scrambling to pay the mortgage and cars she may have demanded is now considered negligent. The man who may be working 2 jobs to allow her to be home with her kids is now considered negligent)

When a woman cheats, the first thing people ask is what he did (or didn't do) to drive her into the arms of another man.
When a man cheats, no one ever asks the same question…

When a woman cheats, sometimes the reaction can be, "Oh, poor thing, I guess her husband wasn't delivering in the bedroom".
However, if a man cheats, no one ever stops to think...."Oh poor fella, his wife was horrible in bed."

 

[DiamondCutCows]

nothing takes your mind off old pussy like new pussy !!

hey road dog divvie, went to dinner with HER last night (it's alright i'm strong willed this time) and just was COOl with her. she tells me she's been sleeping in the other room, and her relationship w/new guy is over. we have dinner and a few drinks , she tells me love me and wishes we didn't fuck things up so bad , but she knows that it is unrepairable and just wants to be close to me on the DL. no one to know that we talk, no relationship, just still be friends. we go out for drinks and desert later, and she practically jumps me in the elevator, we carried on like a couple, then i gave her a kiss and got her all moist and sent her home... i told her i had fun, but made it clear i was going to date other women and she would never be my girlfriend again anytime in the next 10 years. she said she was cool with that, and said thanks for just being nice to her... and you know what ? i did have fun, but i had NO desire to be back in a relationship with her... i guess i AM over her.
sorry for the hijack diamond... but it DOES get better

Thats not a hijack! Thats where I feel I'll be 3 months from now.

 

[LVTitan]

when you fuck with the bull , you get the horns.




i dont know what that has to do with this thread, but diamonds avatar scared me.

 

[DIVISION]

UPDATE:

So I went out last night and got smashed, met a few girls and generally has a good time. I walk in the apt around 2ish, what does the "wife" say??

"Now we're definitely breaking up" "You never go out during the week"

Im like, WTF? "I dont want you anymore, just find a place to go"

She will be moving out soon. She's gonna get an apt with her cousin...

It sure was easier once you were smashed wasn't it?

I would have straight up told the bitch to be out of the house by the end of the next week. She can come back to get her shit whenever she wants, but she'd better have found a place to live before then. You were alot nicer than I would have been CowCutter.

nothing takes your mind off old pussy like new pussy !!

hey road dog divvie, went to dinner with HER last night (it's alright i'm strong willed this time) and just was COOl with her. she tells me she's been sleeping in the other room, and her relationship w/new guy is over. we have dinner and a few drinks , she tells me love me and wishes we didn't fuck things up so bad , but she knows that it is unrepairable and just wants to be close to me on the DL. no one to know that we talk, no relationship, just still be friends. we go out for drinks and desert later, and she practically jumps me in the elevator, we carried on like a couple, then i gave her a kiss and got her all moist and sent her home... i told her i had fun, but made it clear i was going to date other women and she would never be my girlfriend again anytime in the next 10 years. she said she was cool with that, and said thanks for just being nice to her... and you know what ? i did have fun, but i had NO desire to be back in a relationship with her... i guess i AM over her.
sorry for the hijack diamond... but it DOES get better

TiTaNugga.....that's called closure. Doesn't get any better that when you can have dinner, have the potential for sex, get her pussy wet in the elevator and then walk away on good terms. You played your cards right and I'm proud of you, boy. You worked this right.

Major Props on that. You should write a guide.....you've completed the journey and came out on top. Now, just keep that same mindset and don't fall back....






DIV

 

[silverbackn]

Fellas it sounds like it's getting better! It always does. Getting that closure is of paramount imnportance. The longer it gets drug out the worse off you are, when you know it's over you can move on. Hope can be a dangerous thing in that situation. Stay strong bro's! I'm pulling for you!

 

[HiDnGoD]

Well, there's been a lot of good advice on this thread, some of it contrary, but most of it applicable at one time or another.
My last comment:
Everything anybody does is selfish, whether they're doing it for themselves directly, or to make themselves feel good about what they've done for others.
If they've done it for themselves, they always have justification for it, no matter what the consensus says. Thus you can never convince them they are wrong, they think it's your fault.
DCC's partner did her thing because it made her feel good, wether from a self esteem issue, or because she wasn't happy & just wanted to sabotage the relationship.
Now DCC's gotta do his thing to feel good about himself, hopefully no one else gets hurt in the backlash.
As emotional creatures, we never stop to think through all the ramifications of our actions. We also rarely stop to think what the other persons motivations may be, we always take it personally.
You do what you gotta to get through, life is a bitch. But a little compassion and understanding will go a long way.
This is kind of ramblin' but I'm tired & drunk & need to go to bed LOL.
Good luck DCC.

 

[wootoom]

fuck that sucks sorry to hear that bro.