So This is Why I havent been around...

[satchboogie]

i feel your pain bro..

love is the strongest feeling...
when healthy, its like a permenant fix.
when not healthy, its like suicide...

stay strong bro is all i can say..

 

[sweed]

Massachusetts is a no fault state, so you cannot file for divorce on grounds of adultry.

Pretty pathetic if you ask me.

ya it is. i didn;t know that.
I hope u get on here soon bro to talk with us

 

[tiger88]

Please dont move this MODS. C+C guys dont know me and wont give a crap...

ya move this to the spanish forum

 

[DIVISION]

ya move this to the spanish forum

Mormon strippers in Scottsdale........only in Phoenix!

If I ever meet this bitch I'll shove that Book of Mormon up her twat.




DIV

 

[The_Chemist]

This is something that Ironmaster PM'd me. Ive posted this many times before, and it helped me through the toughest time of my life.

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I've said this several times, so I'm not sure which post you mean. But, yes, I've been through life's ups and downs. My first marriage ended badly, I've had successes and failures in business, I've fought the battles of raising teenagers, lost loved ones......this shit just happens if you live long enough.
The one constant thing in my life has been the training. The gym is a place of truth and honor. The iron and steel is always there waiting for you, and always gives back exactly what you put in. The determination, sacrifice and hardwork required to be successful there will spill over into all your endeavors in life.
Yes, women and money and friends come and go, but a 45lb. plate always weighs 45lbs.
When things are in the shitter, I've always just renewed my dedication to training and the brotherhood we all share. And you know, things always get better.
My second wife is great.....shares my interest in enhanced training, cooks my food just right, is a great mom to our 5 sons, and is much younger and prettier than I deserve.......but if it went down the dumper tomorrow, I'm still going to the gym.
Hang in there, man, it'll be ok.

IM

 

[Meat_head]

I feel for you bro. I've been caught in a situation similar though not marriage thats a whole nother level. For me it felt like the pain gets worse every day. Believe me it gets better eventually. There is light up ahead. Go bang other chicks. Live it up. You be laughing when she comes back around for you and your not there.

 

[bw1]

Well my wife of 4 years suddenly decided one day that she is too young (24) to be married and wants to start going clubbing and meeting new people.

We did get married very young, but Im mature enough for it, where she obviously is not.

Her reasoning is suspect if that. She told me she goes to lunch with a dude at work. I asked if he had her #, she said NO. Sure enough he calls five minutes later while she is in the shower and his # is already programmed in the phone.

Anyways, she has changed very much in the last few weeks and my marriage is over. I love nothing more than coming home to the same girl everynight and holding her while we sleep. Im just now trying to move on with my life...

FWIW, this has ruined my cycle. About a month ago I tore my deltoid and held weight (239) while I didnt lift, but in the last two weeks I have fallen down to 220ish. I cant eat or sleep, but I continue to hit the weights a few times a week.

She has been very mean to me also. She even admits that I did nothing to deserve this.

So why treat me like this???

Please dont move this MODS. C+C guys dont know me and wont give a crap...

That suck bro, at least there's no kids involved. I know it's hard but, move on you'll be glad you did.

 

[ortiz34]

No fault state means you CANNOT file for divorce on grounds of adultry. There is probably only 4-5 states left that you can file for cheating.

I know this because I just got divorced in Massachueseets 14 days ago for the SAME reason this gentlemen is getting divorced.

To the original poster, this will be one of the toughest battles of your life, but you will become a stronger person. Like alot of fellow posters here have advised, pump some iron and pump some b%tches like there is no tommmorow.

 

[shamrock11]

Sorry about your bad luck. It's her loss man, move on. She cheated and lied, you'll never look at her the same and your relationship would never be as you know it now.

 

[PatBateman3]

Also, and this might not even help, but maybe you can take solace in knowing you had no control over this and did all that you could do. As long as there wasn't some reason pertaining to you why she did the things she did (i.e. had you been abusive, etc, which it seems you definitely were the opposite), then you really have nothing to be ashamed about or look back and honestly have to say, "I should have treated her differently." It was out of your control.

I myself had the complete opposite situation to yours. I wasted one of the best girls out there and not a day goes by where I wish I had acted differently, treated her better, given her the commitment she wanted. So just know that unlike some of us, you gave it your best shot.