If you think it's embarressing to tell a Dr. Try this one out, I was really depressed about 2 years ago and my Dr., a female, put me on the anti depressent Celixa, the trouble with that was I could get the wood but I couldn't get my nut. Try telling that to a female Dr. After a few weeks of being frustrated sexually it didn't matter if the Dr. was a woman, besides she understood it completely and changed my medication, and it wasn't a problem any more. So if your shy with your Dr, your the one who needs to get over it. Not the Dr. I left my job which was really fucking me and though life isn't perfect it's a lot better then it was.