Need Advice: I last forever

[Synpax]

Started with this girl. I'd say the most attractive woman and the woman I've desired most that I've been with.

Sex is great. We usually get into or close to double digits with her orgasms over an hour or so. Oraly, vaginally, analy. We are mostly vaginal and all different angles.

Something I am curious about it I don't seem to be able to climax and it is hard to feel any real friction. I am a non-responder to oral sex. I can hammer her forever if I want to. We usually stop because she is sore and then wait until she isn't anymore and go again.

The last time this went on for 45 hours. I think she came several dozen times over the course of that period but at the end I had to yank myself off as she couldn't take it vaginally or anally any longer due to chaffing (both of us are unshaved down there - soon to be remedied).

Of the women I've been with, she is the oldest and probably the one who is easily the most experienced.

She feels incredible on the inside and I absolutely love getting her off over and over. I really care about this girl.

I suspect I need a little more friction or 'grip'. Maybe focusing more on just the entrance where there is a little more would help. Or just more time - we are a little new to each other.

Thoughts?

 

[BigRupe]

Started with this girl. I'd say the most attractive woman and the woman I've desired most that I've been with.

Sex is great. We usually get into or close to double digits with her orgasms over an hour or so. Oraly, vaginally, analy. We are mostly vaginal and all different angles.

Something I am curious about it I don't seem to be able to climax and it is hard to feel any real friction.

Is she loose?

I am a non-responder to oral sex. I can hammer her forever if I want to. We usually stop because she is sore and then wait until she isn't anymore and go again.

That's interesting...you being a "non-responder" to oral sex. Makes me wonder if your inability to orgasm is psychological.

The last time this went on for 45 hours. I think she came several dozen times over the course of that period but at the end I had to yank myself off as she couldn't take it vaginally or anally any longer due to chaffing (both of us are unshaved down there - soon to be remedied).

Of the women I've been with, she is the oldest and probably the one who is easily the most experienced.

She feels incredible on the inside and I absolutely love getting her off over and over. I really care about this girl.

I suspect I need a little more friction or 'grip'. Maybe focusing more on just the entrance where there is a little more would help. Or just more time - we are a little new to each other.

Thoughts?

I would suggest she masterbate you almost to climax and then you have intercourse and you might want to see a sex therapist.

Are you taking any AAS or anti-depressants??

 

[EnderJE]

S, I've got the same problem. With me, it had to do with some of my meds. I'm still on them except for the days when I'm pretty sure to get sex.

 

[Synpax]

Women don't seem to ever be able to touch it right, so I don't think HJ would work.

Other girls I have been able to climax with pretty easily - girls I find far far less desirable than her. I can do it with my hand pretty well, too (20 minutes or so).

I have been on Modafanil on and off (just to keep me awake for some projects from time to time) but nothing else. I don't think they affect it - I would think if they had an effect it would be erectyle dysfunction or something.

I should say though - I don't really see it as a 'problem'. It's just something that is different. I also sort of want to be able to be with her afterwards in a state of mind that I usually am after a climax (a little more clear headed - though the times I did climax with her I was reloaded in about 5-10 minutes).

I wonder if it really is that she is not so tight (or maybe I don't have enough girth?)

 

[KillahBee]

Women don't seem to ever be able to touch it right, so I don't think HJ would work.

Other girls I have been able to climax with pretty easily - girls I find far far less desirable than her. I can do it with my hand pretty well, too (20 minutes or so).

I have been on Modafanil on and off (just to keep me awake for some projects from time to time) but nothing else. I don't think they affect it - I would think if they had an effect it would be erectyle dysfunction or something.

I should say though - I don't really see it as a 'problem'. It's just something that is different. I also sort of want to be able to be with her afterwards in a state of mind that I usually am after a climax (a little more clear headed - though the times I did climax with her I was reloaded in about 5-10 minutes).

I wonder if it really is that she is not so tight (or maybe I don't have enough girth?)

Outside of medicine being a factor, I HAVE to believe it's psychological. Don't know how or why, but it seems this is the reason. Personally, I am a very cerebral sexual person, so I can usually make myself cum quicker or hold off a bit if need be. And I have been in circumstances where I wasn't coming as quick as I or she would have liked so I needed to make it happen in my own mind (we all have our own little tricks/thoughts for this....). Is ti possible you are intimidated a bit (you mentioned how much you are into her and that she is older and experienced, etc, etc)?

Oh, and for the record - I also hardly ever get off from head. The fact is, most girls are not really good at it and a blow job is not something that can be half-assed. Good luck bro

 

[Trojan Horse]

What have you been on? Have you been on Nandrolone Decanoate? What type of prescriptions are you taking? The problem you decribe could be attributed to alot of things.

Psychological-Medicinal-Physical

Are you turned on by her? Are the medicines and/or drugs/prescriptions to blame for this? Is there a problem with the friction? Is there a problem with you? i.e. medically diagnosed with an ailment? etc...

These are the three main catagories which could identify your problem. Once you have identified it then you can start to resolve this. You did say that she didn't provide friction. You did not eleborate on drug usage. You also indicated that you are attracted to her however; what type of attraction is it? Are you subconsciously "scared" of her for whatever reason?

 

[Synpax]

Hi,

I am infrequently on Modafinil. I think I've been on it with her but not the whole time.

Yes, very turned on by her.

No physical problems or illnesses. Amateur athlete. Very strong, lot of weight lifting.

I am not on nor have I ever been on AAS.

I don't think I'm scared of her - there are some issues - but when we are getting it on I don't think anything like that even comes to mind. She keeps climaxing over and over - I really know how to operate her well.

 

[Delinquent]

how often do you masturbate? I know when I would do it frequently, it took longer and longer to get off.

Also, it takes 20 minutes for you to masturbate?

 

[GrandMaster]

Outside of medicine being a factor, I HAVE to believe it's psychological. Don't know how or why, but it seems this is the reason. Personally, I am a very cerebral sexual person, so I can usually make myself cum quicker or hold off a bit if need be. And I have been in circumstances where I wasn't coming as quick as I or she would have liked so I needed to make it happen in my own mind (we all have our own little tricks/thoughts for this....). Is ti possible you are intimidated a bit (you mentioned how much you are into her and that she is older and experienced, etc, etc)?

Oh, and for the record - I also hardly ever get off from head. The fact is, most girls are not really good at it and a blow job is not something that can be half-assed. Good luck bro

Killah make a good point!
i also hav the ability to cum fast, or hold off on it and make it enjoyable.......have her shave the cooter....and if u want to cum faster..........................think of someone else!

 

[Synpax]

It can take me that long or longer to get myself climaxed, yes. Sometimes it is fast but I don't often rush it. And when I do it lately I think of her.

We are a little new to each other still. Will see how it goes. I don't really think of this as a problem - I'm just a little curious about it. Plus I'd really like to slurp it back out of her and spit it all over her face.