My fiance left me

[musclemom]

Yes, kid, excuse me, gladiator, you are young. See, when I was your age, 24 years ago, I had been married nearly 2 years and had a son ten months younger than my marriage. I got married one month before I turned 19. Why do you think I was telling you not to get married in the first place?

 

[Bikini Mod]

When my husband was 19 he t'werent married yet. Uncle Sam had other plans. He was vacationing in Vietnam, Capt Airborne Ranger. He didn't do the REALLY BIG BOY thing and grow up and get married till he was like 21/22 I believe. Married a nice mormon girl (who happened to be a Miss Teenage USA or something) have a coupla kids and bust his ass traveling 5 days outta seven to support them. Too bad his wife was "too lonely" regardless of all the nice things that money he earned bought them. One day he came home and his kid told him that mommy was talking really loudly with Uncle Dave in their bedroom. My husband - "You don't HAVE an uncle dave, honey." Long story short - she was fucking the nextdoor neighbor who was also married with a coupla kids. My husband spent the next 2 decades paying ungodly childsupport for kids that "were never available to see him" - payed for freaking doctorals.... You know who his kids call dad? THE OTHER DOUCHE THAT WAS FUCKING HIS WIFE... but then again, it must have been a good choice as they have still been married all these years and fifty kids later.

Me, I was married by 22 to an abusive (though thrifty) piece of shit who has tortured and abused me, my children AND my family for the last 9 years because I grew the balls to kick his ass out for beating me to the ground.

So when us OLD dumbasses give you advice it is because we have been there, done that and dont want to see someone else wearing THAT T-shirt.

 

[jackangel]

damn musclemom got all retarded up in this thread.

 

[Thandie]

I may have posted this regarding myself about a million times. YOu must have missed them, that is not MY bad.

I do believe I posted "there isn't anyone person who knows everything there is to know about everything" within the last seven days as a matter of fact.

Oh yea and Gladiator, you are young... we get it. Good lord do we get it. Why don't you ask my husband what he was doing with his life when he was your age? Pssssssssssssshhhhh 20 was OLD for him. Ask him what he was doing when he was 16. Hey, while we are at it why don't you ask me what I was doing at your age?

My husband didn't have a choice in growing up as quickly as he did whereas ME, THE DUMBASS DID have a choice and I went and screwed it all up anyway because I was *READY* to be a full-fledged grown-up. NOBODY in my family has laughed about the stupid choice I made over 20 years ago... least of all my children. They can't laugh, they are too busy being abused.

The only reason any of us on this thread gave you a hard time is because you came off like SUCH an arrogant, unintelligent, hypocritical moron regarding your religious views. Perhaps we shouldn't have because you've already admittedlu felt the need to *hold back* or *not expose* your intelligence during every single one of those posts and what fun is there in having yet another battle of wits with an unarmed man?

I feel so empty.

Have fun with the impending pussy-massacre but will they go in christ with you? Or I guess it won't matter because they won't "know" the lord. As long as one party engaged in the fornication olympics knows who the boss is, then I guess that makes it ok for both. Good thing for your immortal soul that jesus died for it. This way all you "believers" get as many get out of hell cards free as you need.

Dammit, see now I was absent that day in sunday school. I miss ALL the good stuff.

BM, you're so wise! I love reading your posts. Too bad most people don't "get it". They'd learn something that will save them alot of grief in the future.

There's IQ and threre's EQ (Intelligent & Spiritual Quotient)
We need both to make it in this world, without self destruction.

 

[musclemom]

damn musclemom got all retarded up in this thread.

Certain flaws are necessary for the whole. It would seem strange if old friends lacked certain quirks. ~Goethe

 

[Bikini Mod]

BM, you're so wise! I love reading your posts. Too bad most people don't "get it". They'd learn something that will save them alot of grief in the future.

There's IQ and threre's EQ (Intelligent & Spiritual Quotient)
We need both to make it in this world, without self destruction.

Thandie, I dunno if I am wise but I CAN tell you that as sure as I am sitting here typing this post, if there was an ASS-BACKWARDS WAY to do something, yours truly was at the HEAD of that line. I often joke that I swear for all the upstream swimming I've done you would think my forehead would be bright pink by now. The good news is that when you *get there* you have THE MOST MIND-BLOWING SEX of your life ('course since it will be your first and last time you really don't have much to compare it too LOL). The bad news is that then you get to DIE.

I love the taste of salmon, but dammit, I'm tired of living my life like one.

True enlightenment comes through suffering (sorry gladiator but christians CAN NOT take credit for that one - this line of thought was invented long before Jesus).

Our character is not decided by our circumstances alone, but rather by how WE CHOOSE to react to them. I do believe that it was Winston Churchill or perhaps Eleanor Roosevelt who first uttered these words.... no Jesus needed.

What I am trying to tell Gladiator is that even "non-believers" are capable of intelligent positive thought and perhaps if he focused less on hellfire and damnation and more on becoming a responsible contributing member of society (sans his cock and pretty body/face) he may actually learn that he has much to contribute to the world in ways that may be great or even very small, but if his actions/words helped JUST ONE OTHER then he won't have to worry too much about his immortal soul - not because of hell or Jesus but because he is sending out POSITIVE ENERGY that will undoubtedly be returned to him a thousandfold, maybe even long after he has left this earth.

What could be better than that?

No Thandie, I am no smarter than anyone else. I've just been beaten up a bit by life... which is no different than every other human being who has been alive as long as I have... C'est nes pas?

 

[iggy]

my dad was in vietnam at 19 and got married at 21 but divorced at 24 BM.

 

[Stefka]

Just one of countless faceless 20 somethings charging through his life thinking he's got the world by the balls, who won't realize that uh, no, you don't dumbass, you're just one more tiny fish in a very big pond, until he's in his mid to late 40s, if ever. Just one of the over 6.7 billion on this planet whose life, over the long haul, won't amount to a hill of beans to anyone but himself and his immediate family (just like 99.999999% of us).

You are quite the downer.
That charging through life thinking you're super awesome thing is one of the best things about your early 20's.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You are quite the downer.
That charging through life thinking you're super awesome thing is one of the best things about your early 20's.

One of the things I admire most about 20 somethings, that fire in their belly. Not so easy to maintain once life has knocked you on your ass a time or six.... but it can be done. We still don't let the world define us or decide who/what we are going to be we just don't go around beating on our chests anymore, as that is kinda well, dumb.

 

[Thandie]

Thandie, I dunno if I am wise but I CAN tell you that as sure as I am sitting here typing this post, if there was an ASS-BACKWARDS WAY to do something, yours truly was at the HEAD of that line. I often joke that I swear for all the upstream swimming I've done you would think my forehead would be bright pink by now. The good news is that when you *get there* you have THE MOST MIND-BLOWING SEX of your life ('course since it will be your first and last time you really don't have much to compare it too LOL). The bad news is that then you get to DIE.

I love the taste of salmon, but dammit, I'm tired of living my life like one.

True enlightenment comes through suffering (sorry gladiator but christians CAN NOT take credit for that one - this line of thought was invented long before Jesus).

Our character is not decided by our circumstances alone, but rather by how WE CHOOSE to react to them. I do believe that it was Winston Churchill or perhaps Eleanor Roosevelt who first uttered these words.... no Jesus needed.

What I am trying to tell Gladiator is that even "non-believers" are capable of intelligent positive thought and perhaps if he focused less on hellfire and damnation and more on becoming a responsible contributing member of society (sans his cock and pretty body/face) he may actually learn that he has much to contribute to the world in ways that may be great or even very small, but if his actions/words helped JUST ONE OTHER then he won't have to worry too much about his immortal soul - not because of hell or Jesus but because he is sending out POSITIVE ENERGY that will undoubtedly be returned to him a thousandfold, maybe even long after he has left this earth.

What could be better than that?

No Thandie, I am no smarter than anyone else. I've just been beaten up a bit by life... which is no different than every other human being who has been alive as long as I have... C'est nes pas?

In that case you are wise! That IS where true enlightenment comes from. I am where and I am who I am as a result of great suffering. That's how we grow, perhaps unfortunate, but so. It's so great at the end, because we are in a place we didn't know, we didn't know we could be, and alot better then where we yearned to be.