Internet Romance

[EnderJE]

I didn't really find out until years after I moved to where she was that my internet SO:

- wasn't really a motivated career type person and actually wanted to be a stay at home girlfriend (that didn't want kids)
- was really quite messy but would spend a entire month cleaning before I'd come visit, and that's not exaggeration.
- was not really as active and outdoorsy as portrayed. She did the typical woman thing of doing the treadmill 90 minutes a day til she got a man then she gained about 80 lbs once I moved in.
- doesn't really like or want friends and if she could figure out a way to do would never leave the house as long as she lived.

all absolute truths.

She better have given up the buttsecks.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bikinimom:

I am glad your are currently very happy. Having said that I'm aware of women who are happy in less traditional relationships. Whatever works for the couple is great I guess

I do understand that if one is completely infatuated with another, this may lend itself to excessively chivalry. But I don't understand why it doesn't work both ways. I mean there is no reason why both the guy and girl can't do nice things for each other - taking/shouting out impromptu to some nice venue. Further, I can't see why these "nice things" are restricted to tradition - e.g., husband taking wife out to dinner; wife preparing husband a meal. The relationship can be equal and reciprocal in this regard I think.

The inequality of "traditional" relationships has practical virtues; it narrows areas of dispute if both parties accede "the traditional contract", as any activity will presumably be guided by one party without debate. But it would seem stifling and oppressive (to both parties) to me, preordaining our behavior to some degree.

Having said that, I have never been exceedingly infatuated with anyone; you have. So so far, its advantage you lol

I was neither infuated with my husband, nor did I love him when I consented to marry him. But he DID and STILL DOES TO THIS DAY, worship me. And I have never behaved in such a way that he should not.

When a man worships a woman, it is her end of the deal to behave in such a way that it would warrant continued worship. <--- not such an easy task.

Past that, one must ask of their partner, "Are you a giver or a taker." There is no in-between. When two givers align, there is an endless circle of giving. What could be better than that?

 

[Frisky]

I am specifically suggesting that you don't pay for SHIT...

You only accept the invitation if you are truly interested in the chap. Anything else would IMHO be immoral and would fall into the category of "user/empty" gold-digging type female.

You are exceptionally bright, good-hearted and a stunning beauty. If a man that wants to court you can not extend even that much at THE CHANCE to capture some of your time and attention, then where is HIS VALUE?

Trust me when I tell you that a man will step over his own mother to capture the attention of a female in whom he is interested. If he won't, then guess what? HE ISN'T WORTH YOUR TIME OR ATTENTION.

If I want to "hang out" 50/50 then I will do that with my girlfriends (who I know love me because they enjoy my company and not because they want my sex) or my family (who at the very least put up with me because they sorta have to LOL).

I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

Gosh... I'm so with you on this one... And still find myself doing the exact opposite and getting the ticket... blah blah. I'm stubborn E, I so need some dating help!

 

[-Ariel-]

I was neither infuated with my husband, nor did I love him when I consented to marry him. But he DID and STILL DOES TO THIS DAY, worship me. And I have never behaved in such a way that he should not.

When a man worships a woman, it is her end of the deal to behave in such a way that it would warrant continued worship. <--- not such an easy task.

Past that, one must ask of their partner, "Are you a giver or a taker." There is no in-between. When two givers align, there is an endless circle of giving. What could be better than that?

+1
Great rebuttal
Great Post
Could not agree any more than I do.
Still nodding in approval. LOL

 

[cindylou]

I dont wanna be worshiped

I'd rather do the worshiping

Honestly. Is that effed up?

 

[-Ariel-]

I dont wanna be worshiped

I'd rather do the worshiping

Honestly. Is that effed up?

I want both... like I dig Me.
if she digs Me.. Well we have sometin in common.
Combine that with Me diiggin on her.
And she digs her.
Wow. 2 things.
2 things 9 times out of 10 leads to the 3rd.

The 3rd being the L word.
So yeah Balance, I guess.

No Cindy Not F'ed Up.

 

[Frisky]

I want both... like I dig Me.
if she digs Me.. Well we have sometin in common.
Combine that with Me diiggin on her.
And she digs her.
Wow. 2 things.
2 things 9 times out of 10 leads to the 3rd.

The 3rd being the L word.
So yeah Balance, I guess.

No Cindy Not F'ed Up.

we should get married... forget about Pdaddy... I don't think he's right for you

 

[-Ariel-]

we should get married... forget about Pdaddy... I don't think he's right for you

IN
Oh I meant Pdaddy, like don't tell him bout the rich sister as in I would get cawkblawked by that pimp.
LOL
He's a cutie sure, but yeah... I"m not gonna pull the thing his best friend did and try to kiss him.
Yeah, I've hoisted up some geigh,-shoe shoppin for U and lip glossin for Letto- but not gay. LOL
Hell yeah, we'd have to bring our ID's though.
Oh wait U are being facetious... Pawned x 2

 

[Frisky]

IN
Oh I meant Pdaddy, like don't tell him bout the rich sister as in I would get cawkblawked by that pimp.
LOL
He's a cutie sure, but yeah... I"m not gonna pull the thing his best friend did and try to kiss him.
Yeah, I've hoisted up some geigh,-shoe shoppin for U and lip glossin for Letto- but not gay. LOL
Hell yeah, we'd have to bring our ID's though.
Oh wait U are being facetious... Pawned x 2

I'd let you buy me all the shoes and lip gloss you ever wanted.

and I would never think you were geigh... hell the reward for such a generous act would be to die for...

 

[Smurfy]

which one of you jamokes it gonna pay my electric bill this month?