bigmann245 said:
sounds like you have experience with guys talking to you at the gym. lol... do you blow them off since your serious about your workout? just wondering cause i know you are serious about it. i for one cant talk to a woman at the gym. i get to focused on what im doing and by the time i realize it, shes gone. but i do notice a lot of woman smileing at me as i walk by, but im a natural smiler so i guess im throwing out the vibe and not realizing it. lol...
Yeah I generally make it a point to try not to talk to the guys at the gym because once you start it never ends.. but I have been on my fair share of dates with guys from the gym that approached me the proper way... and I have been approached by a TON of a-holes that did it the wrong way!!! the worst is when some fat fucker comes over and trys to "correct" my technique. Or the fucking retards that try to have a conversation with you by following you around from station to station... all the while I am ignoring every fucking word coming out of there mouth!!!
ones that have worked...
the security guard at my gym always walks me to my car.. not because I ask him or anything simply because I see him everyday and we always said hello and then that progressed into him walking to me to my car... well this one cutie noticed this I guess and as I was walking out the door he had been waiting talking to a front person and he asked the security guard if he could walk me tonight.. yeah I was puddy!!!
another was I got a rose and note put in my wiper of my car... the note just was simiple saying that my dedication showed and he didn't want to bother me during my workout but have to congradulate me on my progress and left his number inviting me out for drinks...
I am pretty good friends with the trainers at the gym and I guess this dude noticed me talking to one of them. this trainer and I go run this crazy stairs every once in a while so the dude talked to the trainer about me and got himself invited to the next session... I kicked his ass by the way heehee
the current guy I am dating.. this approached also was helped due to the fact that he is DROP dead gorgouse 5"8 over 200 pounds under 7% body fat and probably has the most beautiful smile EVER!! We had made eye contact A LOT!! passed smiles, never spoke but if I was in line for the water fountain he always would let me in front of him, or in passing in the gym would always stop and let me walk in front of him... always never saying a word he wears head phones and really doesn't talk to anyone he is VERY focused in his workout!!! this continued for a while and it drove me freakin NUTTS!!!! he was always smiling at me but never talked to me so it like planted a seed in me! finally one day I was doing cardio and he came to the machine beside me and I was using everything in my power not to stare at him.. and then he finally spoke to me, "you have the most unbelieveable body I have ever seen on a women, you work out harder then all the men here put together..." long after heehee
yeah on a side.... me and my dude work out together now... and I fucking LOVE it no one bothers me anymore everyone just stares at the two of us.. heehee it is really one of the most erotic things working out with someone that you are so freakin attracted to that literally you are wet when they walk through the door.. many a times I have been ready to jump him right in the middle of the weight room!!! and I think the best compliment I have ever gotten came last week when we were waiting to get some water between exercises, his old dude that had been watching us came up to us and asked if we were getting ready for the muscle mag shoot!!! yeah I am falling hard for this one... I'm a geek!!