How come I have to go thru this B.S. every time I get into a relationship?!?

[coverguy]

God said, "Love is not jealous."

With that said, it all depends on how you feel for this girl, and how you think she feels about you. If you're that serious about her, then you have to trust her, because that is the foundation of love and any good relationship. If you're not at this point then you should talk to her about it and stay on the look out.

 

[from zero]

Abort bro.
She still has feelings for him, and they will be fucking in no time.

I kinda dealt with the same shit a couple years ago. Pain in the ass, and totally not worth your time.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Never go out w/ anyone (male or female) who just got out of a relationship. Because you'll be in that "rebound" situation & it rarely works. Too many issues to deal with because that person didn't "heal" from the previous relationship wounds.

Most girls (especially the good looking ones) are always in a relationship. If they end one they usually have another one within a week.

I thought 2 months wasn't bad.

Perhaps I was wrong.

 

[Sean Scott]

Girl + Guy friend = guy who has not fucked her yet but will. get the hell out but give her a dirty sanchaz before you leave her..

 

[alien amp pharm]

God said, "Love is not jealous."

With that said, it all depends on how you feel for this girl, and how you think she feels about you. If you're that serious about her, then you have to trust her, because that is the foundation of love and any good relationship. If you're not at this point then you should talk to her about it and stay on the look out.

I agree. I love this girl and we seem very compatible even only after 1 month, but what she is doing does not look good at all. She says she feels the same way about me, but actions speak louder than words and her actions are very unfair to me.

 

[the nature boy]

Most girls (especially the good looking ones) are always in a relationship. If they end one they usually have another one within a week.

I thought 2 months wasn't bad.

Perhaps I was wrong.

Dump her and tell her you think she's still not over her ex.

 

[MissJanet79]

Most girls (especially the good looking ones) are always in a relationship. If they end one they usually have another one within a week.

I thought 2 months wasn't bad.

Perhaps I was wrong.

There isn't a sufficient "cut off" for the time period when you should date someone after a relationship... It's hard to say really. Which is why it's crucial to get to know them & touch base on previous relationships. Now if the girl/guy is resenting his/her ex, then it's probably too soon.

And as for the people who have someone within a week of a breakup - you don't want people like that because they're obviously too NEEDY! And imagine all the drama you'd be dealing with?! Someone who takes their time & heals their wounds is someone responsible of their emotions & others. That's what you want!

 

[the nature boy]

I agree. I love this girl and we seem very compatible even only after 1 month, but what she is doing does not look good at all. She says she feels the same way about me, but actions speak louder than words and her actions are very unfair to me.

you guys are dropping the "L" word after 1 month?

whoa dude. slow down.

 

[jh1]

Aren't you 28 and she is like 20?

LOL... she is dragging you around like a puppy. Sorry bro, but clean up your act... you know better. It is clear as day that she has feelings for this other guy and is trying to work things out right in front of you....

 

[alien amp pharm]

Thanks for your replies guys. I just needed reassuring here because I try not to be the jealous/controlling/worrying type, but I felt strongly about this being wrong on her behalf.

Now the question is do I jump off the train now and receive a few bruises, or do I wait until it derails and blows up?

^^^ha, that's great. Somebody quote that.