if gear doesn't "make you big", then why have i seen several posts about people losing it all when they come off a cycle? you're putting chemicals into your body that don't need to be there. i've seen people on gear and i've seen natural bb's with twice the size. bottom line is that since(as grizzly said) there are many people that you could never guess they used gear by looking at them, then it's not as helpful as a good routine and good nutrition. therefore it is useless to me.
and yes, women find big muscular guys disgusting,,,,,,,, at least the ones they see in the magazine anyway. however in real life those guys aren't all pumped and oiled up so i don't believe most women would pass them up. muscles make you masculine, you then appear to women as someone who can keep them safe and protect your home and family.