pintoca
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ZenX said:I am very frustrated. I went on the scale today and I was 229.5lbs! I used to be 227. I am getting very upset and discouraged. I ate to much for diner I believe and I am so pissed now. I feel like I am getting further away from my goal.
I am doing all of this for my girlfriend of 1 year. She always says that I am not fat etc but I feel like I am and I want her to look at me and be like damn, thats my guy. You know what im saying fellas. I need help with this and Idk why im not losing lbs anymore.
Chapter 1: Motivation
First of all, you are not doing this for nobody else than for yourself. Keep that in mind. Why? cause regardless of what happens, you remain.
I didn't do this for my wife (who thank goodness, constantly reassured me she loved me the way I was: 265lbs @ 40% BF, picture that), I did it to be able to give be an example to my to-be-born son (who is 14 months old now).
If your motivation is not strong enough, you will fall.
Secondly, don't despair, there are reasons for why things happen, Your GF will love you just the same (did she meet you when you were ripped? or like now?) I think to believe she fell in love with the guy she sees today.
You are doing your best and the effort is all man, jeopardizing your health by trying to rush things will lead to nasty consequences.
Let's go back to square 1:
Weight
BF
Training schedule, lifting and cardio
diet
how long have you been doing this
what are you taking besides food
We are going to shake that diet of your bro. Post up, you are not alone