Integrity is everything....being a man/woman of your word is substancial to this. For me, if you say ur going to go pee, that's what i expect you to do unless you say otherwise. Simple enough. I dont know the entire story like if there was a reason behind it or emergency, etc so I can't really make a sound judgement call.
Funny, I wanted to post up the other night about something similar to this. (same mind frame)
My ex (father of my child) said he was coming over to pick up Braylan...I tell her he's coming and she gets all excited....I don't hear from him for about 2 hours so I initiate a call. He says he's at home...mind you, from where he was, he had to pass by my place to get to his....but that he had to pick something up and then was on his way. So, I tell Bray again, daddy's on his way. We sit and wait. She's giddy. (he lives MAYBE 8 minutes from me) 45 minutes later....I call again just to confirm or deny his arrival...he's pissed at me this time because "i know his legs hurt from working out and he's exhausted".
![Roll eyes :rolleyes: :rolleyes:](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f644.png)
Ummmmmm...OKAY. So why didn't you tell me that 4 hours ago...when you KNEW you weren't coming over. Instead, I had to sit for 4 hours telling my daughter that daddy was coming and then he wasn't and then he was and then not. Amidst all this...she's crying and in tears because she wants to see her daddy. Five different times that night he said he was coming to get her and 5 different times I had to call and find out where he was. Irony behind this, I'm now the "bitch" because I didn't "cover" for daddy. Was I wrong here? Negatory...he said he was coming over and never had any intentions on doing so. When I confront him with that...he rips me a new arsehole and tries to make me out to be the bad guy. If you can't trust and believe in the little things...how will you ever get to the big ones?
Moral of my story: I hold a simple mentality in life with everything. Shit or get off the pot. Say what you mean and mean what you say. No one can EVER doubt you then.
I have to agree with satch to a point too...think rationale and never act on your emotion. Doesn't always end up purty when you do.