What happened to my g/f's SEX DRIVE??!!

[flexdaddy]

I don't get it, at first everything was great. We were screwin just about every day, sometimes it was actually every day. It's not like I don't know what I'm doin, she goes everytime we do it, and I always come up with new things to try so it doesn't get boring. But lately her sex drive has gone to pretty much non-existent, but the worst part is that she actually thinks that she still has a sex drive, but trust me there's nothin there. I don't know what to do, and sex is pretty damn important to me, blame it on the hormones.

 

[ajtomasi]

When you're talking about sex drive do you mean her ability to get "wet"?

I don't have the answer, but I do have a funny story . . .

This chick I liked was getting married. She would tell me that her man never made her wet and that "he said" that it might be a medical condition that she needed to get checked out. Well, after meeting me she had no problem getting wet with me all over her. So in essense she was marring a guy she really truely loved, but didn't feel intimate about.

So I guess I was like her test to see if she was making the right decision. They did get married and I guess she's happy.

Point is . . . if your girl really likes you and wants to have sex with you, then it might be something that could be cured with some pills from GMC.

 

[flexdaddy]

No no no, when we do have sex, she gets soaking ass wet. The problem is that she never wants to get sexual anymore, and hardly ever wants to have sex. GODDAMN THIS FUCKIN SUCKS!!!!!

 

[ajtomasi]

Oh! my bad!

Well, I still suggest going to GNC. I had this lady tell me that that birth control shot made her lose her sex drive, but that she was able to bring it back by taking something from GNC. I don't remember what it was, but if MACA works for men, then there must be something there for women.

 

[flexdaddy]

Well I give up, there's nothin I can do to make her wanna do anything. Shit, I don't know what's gonna happen, this blows ass. We fight too goddamn much anyway, we'll have to see what happens......things used to be so great.

 

[DJ_UFO]

Shit dude i understand you...I had the same experience with a past relationship. It wasn't me, i was very good (actually i know i'm good) byt my girl never wanted to have sex....she lost her libido. When we had, she was very wet but the problem was that sex was very apart in time. I needed sex every almost 2-3 days, that's normal...but she wanted every 7-10 days...that's too much!!. She wasn't interested in playing sexual games, wasn't interested in sex toys. It is very difficult to speak those things with girls...they are very selfish regarding sex...they think that you are an animal, that you are only worried about sex, and they think that they are completly normal. After my experience, i know that is an hormonal problem...maybe caused for use birth control pills in the past or on the present, or her nutrition, i don't know but obviously it's an hormonal problem. If you are still fighting to get an answer to this problem, and if you have had too many fights trying to get this problem resolved, I think there is one last chance...don't say any word, and next time that she'll go to gynechologist, go with her and in the middle of the interview, ask the doctor for an hormonal levels exam. Obviously he will ask why, then you say that she have a very low libido, and start talking, and talking and talking...she will be shocked. But if the doc (man or woman) hear your experience, he will know that obviously is not normal and could be an hormonal problem. If after that she is not interested in follow the doctor instructions, I think she doesn't deserves nothing more...after that, stop waisting your time. Your consiousness will be clean, cause you did all you could have did.

 

[flexdaddy]

I might have to do somethin like that. Her thing is, she don't wanna do nothin until she is ready, then if I try to do what she does me, she gets pissed cuz SHE'S ready. And she'll sit there and play with my "stuff" all she wants (and trust me, it's just playin with it), but if I try to touch her she won't let me. Maybe she's burnt out from it cuz we used to do it so much when we first dated. Who knows.

 

[ProteinFiend]

maybe shes cheating (or cheated) on you... the first sign of an unfaithful partner is being hesitant to kiss... or possibly loss of sex drive (cuz she feels guilty)... also the fact that you fight a lot points a suspicious finger in her direction...

otherwise.. if its a relatively new relationship.. she might just have gotten over the initial thrill... especially if she was a virgin...

 

[flexdaddy]

Naaah, she aint cheatin.

 

[dasgh]

Like PF said, could be just over the initial thrill but also it could be because you both fight a lot. Most women have to feel close to their partners and know that there arent any problems between each other before they can get ready otherwise....