BM, you just made one of the all time mist ignorant, unfounded, blind statements I have ever heard.
I have NEVER had a woman who did not like being talked to dirty. NEVER. Most of them seek it out and it ends up being a major part of the sexual relationship. I've had virgins, "sluts", old, young, black, white. All the same - they LOVE dirty talk. Women are emotional creatures - it's easy to spark emotions in them using your words.
I like hearing a woman say anything dirty to me - it depends on the situation and our relationship. I like when they go above and beyond - we've all heard the "slap my ass", "this is your pussy", "your cock is perfect", "harder, fuck me harder". I like the other stuff every now and then - "I love your cum", "hit me", "make me bleed", "you are fucking god", etc, etc