So This is Why I havent been around...

[bicepts101]

thing is this whole relationship thing is just to make 90% of us miserable and 10% happy. i mean think about it. how many people stay married? how many people are happy with their marrage or relationship and accually stay happy? and no one is happy when they are alone. for a period of time sure and yes there are perks. when it comes down to it you will want a partener.

in the military ive seen SOOO many relationships just burnt up and thrown to the dirt cause people are scumbags. DIV, im sure has seen it too. a guy will go out to the trail for a week, his wife will go out to the bar with a few friends and bam shes naked fucking her neighbors husband cause shes out in the feild too. thinks its funny?...it happens and people kill themselves over it. i know a women that cheated on her boyfreind when she was in iraq and guess what he did while he was back home waiting for his dream girl? he hung himself in a church. pretty fucked up huh?

so think twice next time before you fuck with someones mind. the shit hurts people in different ways so stop thinking of yourself sometimes.

 

[krishna]

thing is this whole relationship thing is just to make 90% of us miserable and 10% happy. i mean think about it. how many people stay married? how many people are happy with their marrage or relationship and accually stay happy? and no one is happy when they are alone. for a period of time sure and yes there are perks. when it comes down to it you will want a partener.

in the military ive seen SOOO many relationships just burnt up and thrown to the dirt cause people are scumbags. DIV, im sure has seen it too. a guy will go out to the trail for a week, his wife will go out to the bar with a few friends and bam shes naked fucking her neighbors husband cause shes out in the feild too. thinks its funny?...it happens and people kill themselves over it. i know a women that cheated on her boyfreind when she was in iraq and guess what he did while he was back home waiting for his dream girl? he hung himself in a church. pretty fucked up huh?

so think twice next time before you fuck with someones mind. the shit hurts people in different ways so stop thinking of yourself sometimes.

I'm not much of an advocate for marriage either. That's why you have to learn to be happy on your own, and it is possible. You have to go deep inside yourself. It's what us contemplaters call meditation.

 

[The Terminator]

in the military ive seen SOOO many relationships just burnt up and thrown to the dirt cause people are scumbags. DIV, im sure has seen it too. a guy will go out to the trail for a week, his wife will go out to the bar with a few friends and bam shes naked fucking her neighbors husband cause shes out in the feild too. thinks its funny?...it happens and people kill themselves over it. i know a women that cheated on her boyfreind when she was in iraq and guess what he did while he was back home waiting for his dream girl? he hung himself in a church. pretty fucked up huh?

Yep
Some people take it REALLY HARD and DONT get over being hurt by another very well, and they either "off themself" (as my best friend might say ), or they turn bitter towards women and become miserable and jaded for a long time

I figure the smart ones are the ones who jump right back into the drivers seat and find a new vehicle to drive asap (I can "say" that , but I dont always do that...)

 

[alltraps]

man, i hate seeing this shit happen to good guys. i am sincerly sorry for this and i do know how you feel. i know this sounds stupid, but with time, all will heal. keep your head up, read some books on this, it helps

 

[DIVISION]

div hows collage mah Nugga

Im with you on the squaters must be fun in the begining

College is fine.....

It's the homework that is a pain in the ass.

Women in college are a distraction......




DIV

 

[bicepts101]

Yep
Some people take it REALLY HARD and DONT get over being hurt by another very well, and they either "off themself" (as my best friend might say ), or they turn bitter towards women and become miserable and jaded for a long time

I figure the smart ones are the ones who jump right back into the drivers seat and find a new vehicle to drive asap (I can "say" that , but I dont always do that...)

yeah i have a terrible time letting things go. anything, you name it. someone says something...ill think i should have said this or that. i think its a form of insecurity

 

[nzbro]

seems like everybody i know having trouble in the relationships :<
I dont get why everybody says Ahh Im happy if they happy
That Bullshit i want her life to be missable , TO much of a good thing = a bad thing
Fuck All Women who Fuck with me
Hail marry

 

[DIVISION]

in the military ive seen SOOO many relationships just burnt up and thrown to the dirt cause people are scumbags. DIV, im sure has seen it too. a guy will go out to the trail for a week, his wife will go out to the bar with a few friends and bam shes naked fucking her neighbors husband cause shes out in the feild too.

Shit don't stop..........

When I was stationed in Germany we'd have rotations to Bosnia and when certain units left their dependent wives would always wander around the enlisted barracks searching for random cock...

Believe me......THEY GOT IT!

Pounded, each and every time.

There were crazy times in the barracks.....at times they'd get a dependent wife drunk and be tripleteamin' her in a fourway......other times guys would run trains. The barracks were unregulated, so shit was off the hinges...

I'd say married women who cheat are the worst, because they want to get away with the nastiest shit behind their husband's back. Things they'd never do with their husbands they will do on the side.....





DIV

 

[sparetire]

Interesting, she was raped at about 14-15yrs and her dad is a step dad. I'll agree that SHE got married to young though. I didnt. I enjoy being a husband and wish none of this nonsense ruined it for us.

I'll move on and be ok, eventually

Find out what happened to her before she was 14-15. I bet you buck for buck something happened to her before the age of 8. Kind of makes you wonder what happened to her real father and why momma chose such an a-hole to have a kid with. I bet if you dug deep enough, you'd find out that momma was abused as a child also, therefore she brings someone in her life to abuse her or her kids. It's a sad cycle that gets repeated over and over until someone finally breaks through to the person who was abused and gets them to get some therapy. For what it's worth, i'm sorry that your marriage might be over, but if you don't have any kids with her, the better off you are without her in the long run. Find a good woman, and yes there are plenty out there, that has her head on her shoulders and start a new life (if this one is ended of course.) On a side note, I came from a divorced family, which my mother re-married to a decent guy, who I refer to as my dad (i love him very much), but when I was a teenager and early adult I would seek out those girls who have been abused or needed "fixing" in attempt to fix them and in some weird way trying to unconciously fix myself. Until I realized where it was coming from (childhood trauma) I kept seeking out fixer-ups. Now that I consider myself "fixed" and my wife "fixed" through some therapy, we have a wonderful marriage. But, in the end, it takes two to tangle in the therapy dance..

 

[DIVISION]

yeah i have a terrible time letting things go. anything, you name it. someone says something...ill think i should have said this or that. i think its a form of insecurity

You can't change the past.......there's no point in killing yourself over things you can't change.

That applies to everything.

Life is a grind, nugga. The Shit don't Stop!




DIV