I'd say div has nailed this hes making alot of good points,
Me and my gf of 2 yrs recently ended our relationship, nothing like this happend but I can say it was the first time that I gave it my all in a relationship, and also was the hardest to let go becuse of it, I since have moved back to my house where I have nothing no funiture, a house that was trashed from renters, little or no money, but I have my friends and family and im finished bieng too nice to any woman, I'm back to "Nice guys finish last, that's why the guy behind me is in second place" Good luck stay strong