So This is Why I havent been around...

[PolfaJelfa]

Cow i was wondering where you were bro.
Been in the same situation if not worse....wasnt maried though....
Bitch decided this also....decided to hook up with someone else.
Now i look for a totaly diferent woman...more mature...not a young stupid cunt who doesent kno wwhat she wants. If i hear the word "clubin" or something like that i dont even want to come within 2 ft. of a bitch like that. There are some unbelievably stupid and moronic bitches out there. Cow you remember me...and why i was out of this board for 2 yrs. A bitch RUINED MY WHOLE LIFE...for a while....never willi allow this to happen again....couldnt eat sleep etc. Was wondering why. I didnt do anything worng. Love is blind but...suck it up.....it cant be 1 sided....dont feel bad either...She is telling you you are not important and she want to be a whore and skank fuck others....cant take a commitment seriously..and is a stupid "club head bitch" so simply move on. Why woudl you want to be with someone like that.
Believe me dude ive been there...you keep feeelign..but my situation is diferent... i love her...bla bla.. bulshit.....you will see with time.

You learn from this...now on the first date i learn the most important things about woman.... Democrat/ Republican, Faith/religion/ Perspectives on life...what she wants to do with her life...
If i here the words club...and she has no goals, no faith, air head....i could not care if she was Pamela Anderson....i lay that shit strait on the table....and tell ehr the truth about wh she can go home herself!

 

[courtneybcca]

i really hate to disagree with you becca, but all the ealry 20's girls i dated all KNEW what they wanted too, trust me girl , you will change phsyically and mentally over the course of the next 10 years... it's a simple fact.

Okay so if you guys think you can generalize the whole female race then I think I should be able to generalize as well…

Here is it blunt…

Men cheat because they are horn-balls and have the biological need to spread their seed to every willing recipient.

Women cheat because there is something missing in the relationship… Be it emotional or physical..

That being said most likely you were not fucking her right.. And she became so sexually frustrated that she went looking elsewhere to fulfill that need.

She is probably being mean now because you have ignored her needs for so long that she is pissed off that all of a sudden she matters to you…

Sorry that is the bottom line…

 

[krishna]

Okay so if you guys think you can generalize the whole female race then I think I should be able to generalize as well…

Here is it blunt…

Men cheat because they are horn-balls and have the biological need to spread their seed to every willing recipient.

Women cheat because there is something missing in the relationship… Be it emotional or physical..

That being said most likely you were not fucking her right.. And she became so sexually frustrated that she went looking elsewhere to fulfill that need.

She is probably being mean now because you have ignored her needs for so long that she is pissed off that all of a sudden she matters to you…

Sorry that is the bottom line…

Ouch! I actually just finished a study on short-term relationships. It showed that men and women both prefer long-term relationships to short-term ones. Also, it showed that men do not have a greater desire than women to "spread their seed". Now it doesn't say why men and women cheat, but it does show that their desires are not significantly different. You may be on to something with why men and women cheat. If you ask me, when something is missing in a relationship, you work together to find it, you don't go and cheat on your partner. That is a very cruel and immature way for women to deal with their problems. Men, what can I say? We have no excuse when we cheat. But then again, who likes excuses? They only seem to make it worse.

 

[krishna]

Bro, I am also an undergrad in Psychology (Junior), yet I don't buy in to the whole lovey dovey bullshit that you are preaching. I'm realistic about people and relationships and I'm being absolutely serious when I say that women truly don't have their heads together 'till their late 20's. Enlightenment comes with experience and acceptance, but in the short term your words don't mean shit to a guy who just found out his wife has been getting dicked down by a guy from work. Apply what you've learned, Krishna......

Psychology isn't reading from a textbook, it's applying principles you learned throughout coursework to your own intuition and putting the pieces to the puzzle.

You seem like a humanist to me, which has it's own merits, but in itself is not realistic for this day and age.




DIV

This has more to do with my second major - philosophy. If nothing else, it plants a seed. There is more to life then just what you see around you. There are deeper realms of life and the mind. This was for meditation, and that can always be beneficial in any situation! Some people are more spiritual than others, and whether or not what I said earlier had any effect on him, is not for you to decide.

 

[courtneybcca]

Ouch! I actually just finished a study on short-term relationships. It showed that men and women both prefer long-term relationships to short-term ones. Also, it showed that men do not have a greater desire than women to "spread their seed". Now it doesn't say why men and women cheat, but it does show that their desires are not significantly different. You may be on to something with why men and women cheat. If you ask me, when something is missing in a relationship, you work together to find it, you don't go and cheat on your partner. That is a very cruel and immature way for women to deal with their problems. Men, what can I say? We have no excuse when we cheat. But then again, who likes excuses? They only seem to make it worse.

I totally agree that you should work together if there is something wrong and the communication lines should be open so that both parties can do that... I didn't say my opinion was right but that is the way it is... I would never cheat on my boyfriend/husband or whatever... But since everyone is making generalizations about myself I decided that it was fare to make one as well.. There is always two sides to the story we have to remember that.....

 

[DIVISION]

Okay so if you guys think you can generalize the whole female race then I think I should be able to generalize as well…

Here is it blunt…

Men cheat because they are horn-balls and have the biological need to spread their seed to every willing recipient.

Women cheat because there is something missing in the relationship… Be it emotional or physical..

That being said most likely you were not fucking her right.. And she became so sexually frustrated that she went looking elsewhere to fulfill that need.

She is probably being mean now because you have ignored her needs for so long that she is pissed off that all of a sudden she matters to you…

Sorry that is the bottom line…

I think what we said was that in our experience, women in their 20's were not mature relationship-wise. Obviously we can't account for a whole gender, so the best you can do is go by your own experiences. I'd say TiTaN has been through alot of 20-ish females and had the same problems regarding maturity and trust.

As far as your point about women cheating because something is missing in the relationship, I already made that point in my first post. I laid it out cleanly why women cheat.





DIV

 

[AristotleBC]

You can not generalize all women.. I am in my early 20’s and I KNOW what I want…

LOL

 

[Slydog]

Okay so if you guys think you can generalize the whole female race then I think I should be able to generalize as well…

Here is it blunt…

Men cheat because they are horn-balls and have the biological need to spread their seed to every willing recipient.

Women cheat because there is something missing in the relationship… Be it emotional or physical..

That being said most likely you were not fucking her right.. And she became so sexually frustrated that she went looking elsewhere to fulfill that need.

She is probably being mean now because you have ignored her needs for so long that she is pissed off that all of a sudden she matters to you…

Sorry that is the bottom line…

OK, very valid points. But again whether its men or women (really boys and girls based on maturity level) we are still bringing up the fact that girls/guys in their 20s tend to be very immature when it comes to relationships. Women in their 20s tend to be very scandalous while men lack the ability to commit in general. Obviously DCC's ex-wife was not mature enough to express to him what she felt was lacking in their relationship. So instead of telling DCC what he could do better to fuck her right "as you put it", so they could both be happy she decides to show that she has no heart and no concern for him and looks for the nearest dick in a glass case to fulfill her needs. Thats class.
Best part about this is that if DCC walks away from this with his head high and keeps his pride and dignity eventually Karma will catch up with her and she is going to be one miserable bitch.

 

[DIVISION]

LOL

Courtney Bcca says she knows what she wants......isn't that what all women in their 20's say?

OK, very valid points. But again whether its men or women (really boys and girls based on maturity level) we are still bringing up the fact that girls/guys in their 20s tend to be very immature when it comes to relationships. Women in their 20s tend to be very scandalous while men lack the ability to commit in general. Obviously DCC's ex-wife was not mature enough to express to him what she felt was lacking in their relationship. So instead of telling DCC what he could do better to fuck her right "as you put it", so they could both be happy she decides to show that she has no heart and no concern for him and looks for the nearest dick in a glass case to fulfill her needs. Thats class.
Best part about this is that if DCC walks away from this with his head high and keeps his pride and dignity eventually Karma will catch up with her and she is going to be one miserable bitch.

I agree with you Slydog. CowCutter's girl was immature, and decided to get pounded on the side. I think his only option at this point is to walk away and wash his hands of the whole situation. At the very least he'll keep his pride and dignity, once a woman gets pounded by another guy, there's no coming back from that. The relationship is dead.




DIV

 

[HiDnGoD]

I'm really sorry to hear your tale man. I've never gone through anything like that so I can't imagine your feelings.

Best of luck, I'll be pullin for ya.

i really hate to disagree with you becca, but all the ealry 20's girls i dated all KNEW what they wanted too, trust me girl , you will change phsyically and mentally over the course of the next 10 years... it's a simple fact.

I think you're right girls do change, but guys change too. Look at all you guys that have had bad experiences, it's changed you. The trick is to be lucky enough to change the same way at roughly the same time.