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yaa its a binding and then a crushing..im never getting married again..i promise
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
LOL

So should I have paid the 150 to get it resized? We turned it into the store when we planned on getting married, she left while it was still at the store, when I got it I had to pay 150 because of the resizing but should she have paid it?

I owe her 100 because she I took it out of her account the day she left me, but I lost about 500 profit on the ring
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What do you mean by profit? You sayin that the ring:

1. appreciated THAT MUCH in value AFTER you bought it?

2. you had to turn down a buyer for the ring?

As for haggling over 150$, I understand the principle involved. Whoever paid for the resizing is out the money because the ring ended up back in the jeweler's possession. However, 150$ is a small price to pay to sever all ties with someone. I guess if whoever is out the money felt strongly enough about the principle to take it to small claims court the judge might rule that the two of you split it equally or that SHE pay the money because afterall, she is the one who broke the engagement off.

If I were to advise either of you as a friend I would say to eat the money and call it a day. Imagine if this were only weeks before the wedding. You'd BOTH be out a substantial amount of cash, deposits in many cases (as in reception halls, photographers, tux rental, dresses, etc) are NON-REFUNDABLE PERIOD. Wedding dresses can run up into the thousands, easily several hundred, then you add the shoes, veil, etc - the money that all the groomsmen and bridesmaids are out for bridal shower, gift, bachelor/bachelorette party, their attire, then there are deposits for the limos, honeymoon... You feel what I am saying?

I am thinking since we are talking ONE WEEK all of this expense was not incurred. If you paid for the resizing, just eat the loss. If she paid you could (I believe legally - not sure though, I am not an attorney) take the position, "You broke the engagement so too damned bad for you." Or you could just refund her the money so she will never EVER have a reason to bother you again.

It's your call.

Just my .02
 
Got it, Im gonna keep ignoring her unless she gets serious about wanting the money.

Then Ill tell her it cost 1300, it will only sell now for 800, so im losing 500. So what i owe you is going towards my loss on the ring. I am not texting her back because i will want to text and talk to her more than i want to. Once i get a job and go to school ill feel a lot better and i wont have time to just think about her.
 
Grump you are being way too harsh on this kid. he's 20 freaking years old. At that age we are ALL entitled to be vaccuous, and I didn't have a "real job" either. Actually, I don't think I worked the summer between my junior and senior year at all. I had other things going on.

I ENCOURAGE him to explore his youth, bang a bunch of girls, be as carefree as he can before the real world hits. I took on a shit ton of responsibility around that age and was forced to grow up way too fast. I wish I could rewind to those years and just be young and immature again.
 
nefertiti said:
Grump you are being way too harsh on this kid. he's 20 freaking years old. At that age we are ALL entitled to be vaccuous, and I didn't have a "real job" either. Actually, I don't think I worked the summer between my junior and senior year at all. I had other things going on.

I ENCOURAGE him to explore his youth, bang a bunch of girls, be as carefree as he can before the real world hits. I took on a shit ton of responsibility around that age and was forced to grow up way too fast. I wish I could rewind to those years and just be young and immature again.
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weeee have a weener!!!
 
Wootooom said:
weeee have a weener!!!
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getting too serious about life at that age is a recipe for making a lot of realy bad choices. We're still figuring out who we are. Why force ourselves into a path only to have to look back years later and wish we'd just relaxed a little and let that path come to us?
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
Got it, Im gonna keep ignoring her unless she gets serious about wanting the money.

Then Ill tell her it cost 1300, it will only sell now for 800, so im losing 500. So what i owe you is going towards my loss on the ring. I am not texting her back because i will want to text and talk to her more than i want to. Once i get a job and go to school ill feel a lot better and i wont have time to just think about her.
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^^Best thing I've seen you post so far.

And you are also correct about how once you start working and enroll in school you will be too busy to think much more about it. And all of the sudden one day you will realize, "Heck, I didn't even think about her today.... or come to think of it, I haven't thought about her or anything connected TO HER for... I can't remember when."

Even though you've spent most of what has been "your adult life" connected to this woman, it pales in comparison to your ENTIRE adult life. You had no children, you had no community property <-- these are the circumstances where it makes it VERY difficult to dissolve a union, legal or not.

Once you have children you are FOREVER tied to that other person, whether you like it or not it WILL BE TILL DEATH YOU TWO PART.

Something that I've found helpfull in the past when I was going through a particularly painfull break-up (with the exception of my marriage - once that was over - there was NO HOPE so I didn't need *any tricks*) especially when I was remembering something good was to SHARPLY RECALL the most painfull thing that the other person said/did to me. Re-reading hate-filled or emails that were full of BS deception were especially helpfull.

It hurts today, but it won't hurt forever. Then once it stops hurting, the world will become colorfull again and then you will pinch yourself and say, "WHAT IN THE WORLD WAS I THINKING?!"
 
nefertiti said:
Grump you are being way too harsh on this kid. he's 20 freaking years old. At that age we are ALL entitled to be vaccuous, and I didn't have a "real job" either. Actually, I don't think I worked the summer between my junior and senior year at all. I had other things going on.

I ENCOURAGE him to explore his youth, bang a bunch of girls, be as carefree as he can before the real world hits. I took on a shit ton of responsibility around that age and was forced to grow up way too fast. I wish I could rewind to those years and just be young and immature again.
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OK, I guess I should let him explore, play around and do what he wants. I am sorry, but, I left home at 16 worked 2 jobs while I finished school, went to college, got drafted, got shot a few times, fell out a lot of aircraft, got married had kids, supported them, divorced a couple times still supported them, & still supported myself.

I guess you are right, I encourage everyone to spend their youth exploring and having fun, then about 15 years later their youth has been explored, they pulled down mad punani and they have a great job handing out little smiley faces when you come into the local walmart.

All this is precipitated because of his posts on the religion forum. Other than that I hope he can screw his GF out of a couple bucks by doing the christian thing and lying to her so he can either pay the $40 bucks for the gym or pay his cell bill or whatever.

I think you hit the jackpot with your post. HE afterall is responsible for whatever he does or doesn't do. If I am hard on him or tell him to party on it really has no bearing on what he will do anyway.

He's 20 and doesn't have a job? Damn his mom and dad must really love him.
 
Grumpy Old Man said:
He's 20 and doesn't have a job? Damn his mom and dad must really love him.
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mine did, and they didn't even have that much money. I was lucky, but I never *had* to work till I finished grad school (though I still dod, off and on). Was I lucky? yes. Did my parents ruin me by supporting me? Not hardly. I turned out just fine and I have a great work eithic.
 
nefertiti said:
mine did, and they didn't even have that much money. I was lucky, but I never *had* to work till I finished grad school (though I still dod, off and on). Was I lucky? yes. Did my parents ruin me by supporting me? Not hardly. I turned out just fine and I have a great work eithic.
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Exactly! You have a good work ethic because of your experience!

Grad school and working are tough enough. Parents have responsibility to their offspring. Hell I paid for my daughters schooling through 4 major changes and a PhD. So you are singing to the choir there.

BUT we also have a responsibility to ourselves.

We are saying the same thing. I am just not saying it so sweetly to a 20 yr old with issues.
 
I worked at Embassy Suites Hotel for 1 year and a half, then worked for my brother for 6 months and still going.

I have a great work ethic, but I have a felony and its hard to get a job right now. Especially when I need one badly right now, bu I know everything will fall in place. What are my issues? Just a 20 y/o looking for a job and looking to start over. I had to go to jail and everything go ttaken from me, and my ex was giving me everything i didnt have. House, money. Now I see that the reason she left is so I can focus on doing things for myself and not relying on my girl to take care of me when I cant even take care of myself.

I will have experience, but Im just still in junior college. Just got out of jail. Just got dumped by my fiance after 4 1/2 years. Just stopped hanging out with friends that are bad influence. IMO it cant get worse than where I am now. The only thing I have carrying me is bodybuilding and looking good, which is important to me at 20
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
I worked at Embassy Suites Hotel for 1 year and a half, then worked for my brother for 6 months and still going.

I have a great work ethic, but I have a felony and its hard to get a job right now. Especially when I need one badly right now, bu I know everything will fall in place. What are my issues? Just a 20 y/o looking for a job and looking to start over. I had to go to jail and everything go ttaken from me, and my ex was giving me everything i didnt have. House, money. Now I see that the reason she left is so I can focus on doing things for myself and not relying on my girl to take care of me when I cant even take care of myself.

I will have experience, but Im just still in junior college. Just got out of jail. Just got dumped by my fiance after 4 1/2 years. Just stopped hanging out with friends that are bad influence. IMO it cant get worse than where I am now. The only thing I have carrying me is bodybuilding and looking good, which is important to me at 20
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Ok, now I know why you are who you are today. Glad we stopped this dance, my old feet were getting tired. Enough said.

Check your PM's
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
I worked at Embassy Suites Hotel for 1 year and a half, then worked for my brother for 6 months and still going.

I have a great work ethic, but I have a felony and its hard to get a job right now. Especially when I need one badly right now, bu I know everything will fall in place. What are my issues? Just a 20 y/o looking for a job and looking to start over. I had to go to jail and everything go ttaken from me, and my ex was giving me everything i didnt have. House, money. Now I see that the reason she left is so I can focus on doing things for myself and not relying on my girl to take care of me when I cant even take care of myself.

I will have experience, but Im just still in junior college. Just got out of jail. Just got dumped by my fiance after 4 1/2 years. Just stopped hanging out with friends that are bad influence. IMO it cant get worse than where I am now. The only thing I have carrying me is bodybuilding and looking good, which is important to me at 20
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Trust me when I tell you, OH YES IT CAN.

... but I hope, for your sake, that it never does.

The best thing you can do for yourself is stay as far away from bad influences as you humanly, possibly can. Another bit of advice (that you may not want to hear, but I will say it anyway.) There are all sorts of negative influences and MANY wear "christian clothing."

Not knocking christians before anybody gets their back up. I only stated this because from this young man's previous posts it is a fair assumption that he may rely too heavily for guidance from those who CLAIM to have found spiritual enlightenment and salvation. <--- this applies to people of many religions and philosophies but because he is a christian, he may be especially susceptible to such influence.

OK no more religion talk on this thread.... at least not from me.

(The only person you can truly ever control 100%, Gladiator - IS YOURSELF. Remember that. This knowledge will come in very handy throughout your entire life.)
 
damn dude, you just got out of jail? what was your felony for?
this thread keeps getting better
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Trust me when I tell you, OH YES IT CAN.

... but I hope, for your sake, that it never does.

The best thing you can do for yourself is stay as far away from bad influences as you humanly, possibly can. Another bit of advice (that you may not want to hear, but I will say it anyway.) There are all sorts of negative influences and MANY wear "christian clothing."

Not knocking christians before anybody gets their back up. I only stated this because from this young man's previous posts it is a fair assumption that he may rely too heavily for guidance from those who CLAIM to have found spiritual enlightenment and salvation. <--- this applies to people of many religions and philosophies but because he is a christian, he may be especially susceptible to such influence.

OK no more religion talk on this thread.... at least not from me.

(The only person you can truly ever control 100%, Gladiator - IS YOURSELF. Remember that. This knowledge will come in very handy throughout your entire life.)
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... and don't use christian skanks who wear crowns and call themselves Miss California as role models! The sluttiest girls are found in the bible-belt.

r
 
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OMEGA said:
thats sucks but going of GUT instinct she wants to Live it up BEFORE she gets married

just a feeling I get
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lol, so true. Those little "christian good girls" are always the biggest whores. One of the easiest places to score pussy is in a church. Where's AllTheWhey? He knows it's true too!
 
ceo said:
lol, so true. Those little "christian good girls" are always the biggest whores. One of the easiest places to score pussy is in a church. Where's AllTheWhey? He knows it's true too!
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lolololol..... story to back that up please CEO....
 
Razorguns said:
Damn, you gangsta like me dawg. I used to hack webpages. We need to hangout and talk to kids.

r
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lol...my ex got busted big time for that when he was 16...he was hacking a paypall-like site and using people's info to buy stuff. Came home one day and the feds were ransacking his moms house. But then ended up heading up the (internet) security department of one of the largest IT firms in DC by the time he was 27.
 
nefertiti said:
lol...my ex got busted big time for that when he was 16...he was hacking a paypall-like site and using people's info to buy stuff. Came home one day and the feds were ransacking his moms house. But then ended up heading up the (internet) security department of one of the largest IT firms in DC by the time he was 27.
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Word.

People still have no idea how much power i have in my hands. I am still puzzled why people dare to mess with me knowing what I can do to them.

Are they just crazy?

r
 
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LOL yea homie we need to set kids up straight and not make the same mistakes we did

My girl used to be all christian, then we started fucking for years, then she left me because "God convicted her to do it". I guarantee she is getting pounded within the next week, fuck. thats ok, she will be over the time in her life where she thought she wanted to live it up, then shell remember me, and ill be engaged to miss america, or some hot ass blonde girl thats tall with blue eyes. totally opposite of her
 
brah, don't worry so much about getting engaged. If you marry young, you'll regret it later. I know it's kind of the anti feminist thing to say, but men have really nothing to gain by marrying young. Nothing. your little swimmers are still good for a long time, use these years to focus on you.
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
So when Im 25 is that when Im gonna be pullin girls from 18-30?
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Well let's put it this way...I'm 27 dating someone who's 40 and has never been married. I'm happier than I've ever been and he's happier than he's ever been. You have time. Making these years about you will only make you better for the person you DO settle down with because you will have "gotten it out of the way."
 
Nice thanks nefertiti, i dont know if i want a girl that had a crazy time, but i will be so i cant say that. As long as i find a girl that is ready to settle down with/for me thats all i want.

my ex al;so cheated on me probably 6 times in 4 1/2 years weve been together, but i cheated too. never had sex with another girl while we were dating, but i kissed a lot of girls, if that even counts. she actually fucked hella guys so FUCK HER im glad that skank is out of my life that stupid cunt, what a bitch that whore
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
Nice thanks nefertiti, i dont know if i want a girl that had a crazy time, but i will be so i cant say that. As long as i find a girl that is ready to settle down with/for me thats all i want.

my ex al;so cheated on me probably 6 times in 4 1/2 years weve been together, but i cheated too. never had sex with another girl while we were dating, but i kissed a lot of girls, if that even counts. she actually fucked hella guys so FUCK HER im glad that skank is out of my life that stupid cunt, what a bitch that whore
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i seriously love this guy...fuck her man..i hate cheaters..
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
Nice thanks nefertiti, i dont know if i want a girl that had a crazy time, but i will be so i cant say that. As long as i find a girl that is ready to settle down with/for me thats all i want.

my ex al;so cheated on me probably 6 times in 4 1/2 years weve been together, but i cheated too. never had sex with another girl while we were dating, but i kissed a lot of girls, if that even counts. she actually fucked hella guys so FUCK HER im glad that skank is out of my life that stupid cunt, what a bitch that whore
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lolol the YG torch has been passed i think.
 
You clearly were whipped if u stayed with her after the 1st time she cheated. She may have been a slut, but you were beyond stoopid there. Hope u've learned.

r
 
I have learned. fuck that bitch, she just left me a message saying a check made her overdraft and she expects me to pay haha

bitch

take me to court you cunt! i love ignoring her i hate her more every day and dont care about her every day and im likin it, this test is kickin in too but fuck her she was nothing but a problem in my life

i cant believe i stayed with her, o well the past is the past all i can do it live it up from here on. ive learned bros, thanks for the words
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
I have learned. fuck that bitch, she just left me a message saying a check made her overdraft and she expects me to pay haha

bitch

take me to court you cunt! i love ignoring her i hate her more every day and dont care about her every day and im likin it, this test is kickin in too but fuck her she was nothing but a problem in my life

i cant believe i stayed with her, o well the past is the past all i can do it live it up from here on. ive learned bros, thanks for the words
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you've knot learned ... the poon will make you a chump again
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
I have learned. fuck that bitch, she just left me a message saying a check made her overdraft and she expects me to pay haha

bitch

take me to court you cunt! i love ignoring her i hate her more every day and dont care about her every day and im likin it, this test is kickin in too but fuck her she was nothing but a problem in my life

i cant believe i stayed with her, o well the past is the past all i can do it live it up from here on. ive learned bros, thanks for the words
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[vader]Now, release your anger! Only your hatred can destroy her![/vader]
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
Nice thanks nefertiti, i dont know if i want a girl that had a crazy time, but i will be so i cant say that. As long as i find a girl that is ready to settle down with/for me thats all i want.

my ex al;so cheated on me probably 6 times in 4 1/2 years weve been together, but i cheated too. never had sex with another girl while we were dating, but i kissed a lot of girls, if that even counts. she actually fucked hella guys so FUCK HER im glad that skank is out of my life that stupid cunt, what a bitch that whore
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between all your anger here and her cheating on you 6 times over i would say she pwns your soul.
who the fuck stays with someone after being cheated on 6 times.
 
superdave said:
between all your anger here and her cheating on you 6 times over i would say she pwns your soul.
who the fuck stays with someone after being cheated on 6 times.
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yea bro that was my mistake

she was providing money, sex , and a car so i got over it pretty quickly. Im not the type of guy to care, but i also let my pride down by accepting her back every time. Im glad that shits all over tho

come on ideas...she dont have my soul she has no idea what to fuckin do with me i own her, but i need to ignore her so nvm
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
haha im goin crazy here dave!

as much as i want to fuck her sis and burn her house and steal her car, i know i shouldnt. fuckkk
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delete her phone number from your phone. delete her emails. delete her yahoo/msn/aim/whatever chat names from your comp. delete anything she sends your on your phone/email/chat and dont even fucking look at it first. delete her damn address from your stupid day planner. And for gods sake dont cave in to booty calls with her. shes a 19 year old female who just got out of an LTR so by default she will be most unstable.

cease and desist all contact forever. its the only way for as clean a break as possible.
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
I think she would be more mad knowing that im happy without her rather than be mad lol
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100% correct. True every time. If she thinks you are out having a good time without her and not caring about her at all, it will drive her friggin nuts.
 
when Jebus created gay, he thought of this thread first. bunch of mo's screaming at a computer screen. fuck you pixels! help me jebus!
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
she tried texing me and she said all shes ever wanted is the best for me! what a bitch!

"im kicking you out, not marrying you and not gonna talk to you ever again, but i want the best for you. "

btw the stronger/bigger i get, the more i love myself, and the less i love her because im starting to love me way more
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You haven't blocked her number yet, puss boy?
 
PICK3 said:
Cum on bro ... admit you're going to yank on it tonight thinking about her sweet vag

The bitch looks like Vanessa Hudgens

just sayin'
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she was hot, and yea i might beat off to her tonight, the sex was amazing

fuck now you got me thinking about her againa damnit pick3 who the fuck are you stirrin up shit in my thread LOL
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
nope not really thats not how it works at all
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do you know how the vatican got all those statues and unbelieveable items? they stole it from surrounding owners. going way back to near the end of the roman empire. took all the marble, statues, bronze. the church did this in the name of God. strange.
 
timtim said:
do you know how the vatican got all those statues and unbelieveable items? they stole it from surrounding owners. going way back to near the end of the roman empire. took all the marble, statues, bronze. the church did this in the name of God. strange.
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You forgot all the gold they stole from everyplace in the world as they infected the local population with disease and then killed them when they didn't want a new religion, but this is more for the religious zelot forum.
 
Grumpy Old Man said:
You forgot all the gold they stole from everyplace in the world as they infected the local population with disease and then killed them when they didn't want a new religion, but this is more for the religious zelot forum.
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especially when their skanky underage bitches tell us gay marriage is wrong.

r
 
PICK3 said:
Oh fuck ... I didn't consider that :worried:

GS will have to upgrade the server again.
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I think I would rather talk on the phone or do an in person guest spot than type hearts. My fingers are just too old for typing, good thing chris can still handle all that stuff.
 
PICK3 said:
you'll cave and go crawling back on your hands and knees beggin' for forgiveness

P'WNED by the poon-nan-knee
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NO no no shes gonna get P'WND

im gonna go say I want to talk after we fuck, fick her so hard she bleeds then say fuck you and leave, all whilebeing videotaped and at the same time ill leave a video by accident that has me in a 3some with her sis and best friend
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
NO no no shes gonna get P'WND

im gonna go say I want to talk after we fuck, fick her so hard she bleeds then say fuck you and leave, all whilebeing videotaped and at the same time ill leave a video by accident that has me in a 3some with her sis and best friend
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knot her mom too :confused:
 
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