+100 right there.
Frankly, if it was my 19 y/o daughter wanting to marry an unemployed 20 year old I'd pull every low blow in the book to discourage it, but maybe developing a strong foundation with the future in-laws is part of their church's philosophy for future success? Bad in law relations can cause a lot of marital strife.
It's all for the best, I'm sure Jesus will applaude while the.gladiator is out there "massacreing pussy." *sigh*