My fiance left me

[nefertiti]

He's 20 and doesn't have a job? Damn his mom and dad must really love him.

mine did, and they didn't even have that much money. I was lucky, but I never *had* to work till I finished grad school (though I still dod, off and on). Was I lucky? yes. Did my parents ruin me by supporting me? Not hardly. I turned out just fine and I have a great work eithic.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Damn, Old Man.... but you are HARDCORE today.

You need to get laid or sumthin?

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

mine did, and they didn't even have that much money. I was lucky, but I never *had* to work till I finished grad school (though I still dod, off and on). Was I lucky? yes. Did my parents ruin me by supporting me? Not hardly. I turned out just fine and I have a great work eithic.

Exactly! You have a good work ethic because of your experience!

Grad school and working are tough enough. Parents have responsibility to their offspring. Hell I paid for my daughters schooling through 4 major changes and a PhD. So you are singing to the choir there.

BUT we also have a responsibility to ourselves.

We are saying the same thing. I am just not saying it so sweetly to a 20 yr old with issues.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

I worked at Embassy Suites Hotel for 1 year and a half, then worked for my brother for 6 months and still going.

I have a great work ethic, but I have a felony and its hard to get a job right now. Especially when I need one badly right now, bu I know everything will fall in place. What are my issues? Just a 20 y/o looking for a job and looking to start over. I had to go to jail and everything go ttaken from me, and my ex was giving me everything i didnt have. House, money. Now I see that the reason she left is so I can focus on doing things for myself and not relying on my girl to take care of me when I cant even take care of myself.

I will have experience, but Im just still in junior college. Just got out of jail. Just got dumped by my fiance after 4 1/2 years. Just stopped hanging out with friends that are bad influence. IMO it cant get worse than where I am now. The only thing I have carrying me is bodybuilding and looking good, which is important to me at 20

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

I worked at Embassy Suites Hotel for 1 year and a half, then worked for my brother for 6 months and still going.

I have a great work ethic, but I have a felony and its hard to get a job right now. Especially when I need one badly right now, bu I know everything will fall in place. What are my issues? Just a 20 y/o looking for a job and looking to start over. I had to go to jail and everything go ttaken from me, and my ex was giving me everything i didnt have. House, money. Now I see that the reason she left is so I can focus on doing things for myself and not relying on my girl to take care of me when I cant even take care of myself.

I will have experience, but Im just still in junior college. Just got out of jail. Just got dumped by my fiance after 4 1/2 years. Just stopped hanging out with friends that are bad influence. IMO it cant get worse than where I am now. The only thing I have carrying me is bodybuilding and looking good, which is important to me at 20

Ok, now I know why you are who you are today. Glad we stopped this dance, my old feet were getting tired. Enough said.

Check your PM's

 

[Bikini Mod]

I worked at Embassy Suites Hotel for 1 year and a half, then worked for my brother for 6 months and still going.

I have a great work ethic, but I have a felony and its hard to get a job right now. Especially when I need one badly right now, bu I know everything will fall in place. What are my issues? Just a 20 y/o looking for a job and looking to start over. I had to go to jail and everything go ttaken from me, and my ex was giving me everything i didnt have. House, money. Now I see that the reason she left is so I can focus on doing things for myself and not relying on my girl to take care of me when I cant even take care of myself.

I will have experience, but Im just still in junior college. Just got out of jail. Just got dumped by my fiance after 4 1/2 years. Just stopped hanging out with friends that are bad influence. IMO it cant get worse than where I am now. The only thing I have carrying me is bodybuilding and looking good, which is important to me at 20

Trust me when I tell you, OH YES IT CAN.

... but I hope, for your sake, that it never does.

The best thing you can do for yourself is stay as far away from bad influences as you humanly, possibly can. Another bit of advice (that you may not want to hear, but I will say it anyway.) There are all sorts of negative influences and MANY wear "christian clothing."

Not knocking christians before anybody gets their back up. I only stated this because from this young man's previous posts it is a fair assumption that he may rely too heavily for guidance from those who CLAIM to have found spiritual enlightenment and salvation. <--- this applies to people of many religions and philosophies but because he is a christian, he may be especially susceptible to such influence.

OK no more religion talk on this thread.... at least not from me.

(The only person you can truly ever control 100%, Gladiator - IS YOURSELF. Remember that. This knowledge will come in very handy throughout your entire life.)

 

[the.gladiator1987]

Thanks bikinimom, and grump, and nefertti. and superdave, and iggy, and well you get the point

 

[-SD-]

damn dude, you just got out of jail? what was your felony for?
this thread keeps getting better

 

[Razorguns]

Trust me when I tell you, OH YES IT CAN.

... but I hope, for your sake, that it never does.

The best thing you can do for yourself is stay as far away from bad influences as you humanly, possibly can. Another bit of advice (that you may not want to hear, but I will say it anyway.) There are all sorts of negative influences and MANY wear "christian clothing."

Not knocking christians before anybody gets their back up. I only stated this because from this young man's previous posts it is a fair assumption that he may rely too heavily for guidance from those who CLAIM to have found spiritual enlightenment and salvation. <--- this applies to people of many religions and philosophies but because he is a christian, he may be especially susceptible to such influence.

OK no more religion talk on this thread.... at least not from me.

(The only person you can truly ever control 100%, Gladiator - IS YOURSELF. Remember that. This knowledge will come in very handy throughout your entire life.)

... and don't use christian skanks who wear crowns and call themselves Miss California as role models! The sluttiest girls are found in the bible-belt.

r

 

[the.gladiator1987]

LOL razr

Felony for burglary and grand theft already served my time now i got 3 years probation, was in over christmas