Increase a womans sex drive

[dullboy]

You talk about my dick more than I do so please clue us in to what drives YOUR obsession. My guess is penis envy.

penis envy would imply that dullboy doesn't actually have a penis.

 

[mrplunkey]

Just because you love someone does not mean you should marry them. It has to be someone you can live with the rest of your life. If you think you can fix a relationship, whether it be sexual problems, or otherwise in nature, after or by getting married you are in up against long odds.

If you want to write a bunch of sappy posts about how love can conquer all kinds of problems and this and that fine, go ahead and pull the wool over this kids eyes. I mean what the hell - in 5 years when he is going through hell with his divorce you wont even be posting here any longer.

Im getting married once, to somebody I can share the rest of my life with.

These words are so true it's scary.

I do see your point Sassy, and that's to not throw-out something that could be great long-term of what could be a short-term issue. While I wholeheartedly agree with every single word quoted above, I don't think it contradicts anything you're saying either.

1) Relying on marriage to fix ANYTHING, whether it be sex, time together, communication, intimacy... or even thinking it will fix the bitching -- is completely delusional.

2) Love doesn't conquer all. Staying power involves a committment to grow, to accomodate each other, to share each other, and to change as a person if necessary. The entire concept of romantic love is less than several hundred years old yet people bank on it like its part of our DNA.

 

[Mr. Black]

First off you never really stated whether your fiancee was seriously interested in resolving her lagging libido. Assuming she is, get her to see another doc, perhaps one that specializes in Endocrinolgy. Then get a complete set of hormone levels tested (make sure they test her Bio-Available Testosterone). If her test levels are shit then I'm sure you'd see some great improvement with supplementing with testosterone cream. Should her hormone levels come back ok, then most likely her libido problems are psychological based (this could be quite tricky to resolve). Therapy would then be an option. Either way DO NOT FUCKING get married until you get this shit straightened out. Good luck.

 

[Smurfy]

I dont know if this has been asked yet, but is she on any hormonal birth control? I was on deprovera for about 2 yrs and it cause a SEVERE decrease in my libido which caused me to change birth control methods. Also, if she is taking any stimulants, that can cause it too. Is she on any other medications?

 

[KD1]

I was on deprovera for about 2 yrs and it cause a SEVERE decrease in my libido

Maybe thats its method of action? It crushes your libido thus no sex, and no pregnancy.

A similar method for men has been quite successfull. It involves showing the male a naked picture of Rosanne Barr right before intercourse. There has been no known pregnancy, or for that matter, successful intercourse ever reported using this method.

Im joking of course.