first move, you or the girl

[sconoscuito]

they always come really close with me most of the time and than I have to break the ice by kissing her or something

I think I just need to be a bit patient though and they will do all the work

 

[jubei]

I agree that its easy to out wait a woman who is obviously interested.

 

[Werd]

The first move as in to say, "What's your name?" way or the first move as far as initiating physical contact when you are getting to know each other?

As far as I am concerned if I find a man attractive I will smile or find something to say to him or make it very easy for him to talk to me...

If it is physical contact though, IT MUST ALWAYS BE ME. If a man makes the first move towards a kiss then I am immediately turned off and there is no hope for the relationship to continue, because I view this as a sign of disrespect. I know that this might not be true on his end so I do say it just like that - "I MUST MAKE THE FIRST PHYSICAL MOVE - PLEASE DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT TRY TO KISS ME OR EVEN ASK FOR THE FIRST KISS AS IT MUST COME FROM ME 100%."

You would be surprized at just how many men still blow it... a clear sign that he could care less about what I have to say or what it is that I want or the he just plain was not listening. Either way he is clearly disrespectful of me and I have no time for that.

I generally tease myself and wait so long to initiate the first kiss though, that the bedroom is not too far away LOL.

 

[sconoscuito]

yea Im talking about the first physical contact so like a kiss that usually leads to other things or just ends right there

im gonna experiment and wait for a woman to make her move, so far it worked so we'll see