Few questions from The Virgin.

[eat big]

What pace do most women like their sex to be at? Hard and slow? Hard and fast? Slow and soft?

Any pointers to giving oral? I know mostly what to do but I saw something where men don't give oral 'hard enough'. Did I read this right?

 

[KillahBee]

Sup eat big

THERE IS NO SECRET to pace. Different girls like it different ways and most girls like it different ways at different times. Some will straight out tell you how to do it. Some will be very vocal about it when you are doing it right. With some you just have to figure it out, pay attention to their bodies and their reactions. Try different things. There are times that call for very slow, deep penetration and there are times that call for animal hard fucking. you'll know when it's time for each one. A girl I dated a few months back, with whom I had AMAZING sex, used to almost always tell me how much she loved it nice and slow, especally when I was behind her. During it she would always whisper to me, "nice and slow, mmmmm....". But whenever I decided that it was time to speed it up, she ALWAYS got into it. it's not just physical fucking - it's 90% in the mind.

Oral? Man, this could get complicated. A whole world of thoughts out there on this. Some peeps will throw out the ol "do the alphabet with ur tongue" theory, some guys have distinct patterns/steps they use. Me? I play it by ear. Some girls respond to lots of clit stimulation - some like it when you push on the clit a bit, some like it soft. Some like slow clockwise circles, some like deep licks up and down. Some like you to suck the lips a bit, some want to to toungue fuck them deep and stiff. Once again, depends on the girl, the night and the situation. Just know this and you'll be fine. ALWAYS work to expand your repertoire (sp?).

 

[SoKlueles]

it depends on my mood. If i want rough hard fast sex, he knows it
if i want soft sweet lovemaking, he knows it also

 

[KillahBee]

Just always be in the moment. I know it's easier said than done, but forget all the memorized routines and methods and stop worrying about what she wants you to do or if you are doing it well. Just be in the moment. For real. 100% in it - most people aren't able to do this with an moment in their day. Be into her and she will be into you. Pay attention to the signals she is giving off. She will moan harder and squirm a bit more when you're doing something right - so keep doin it.

 

[jenscats5]

It really varies by woman.....

 

[lavarat]

What pace do most women like their sex to be at? Hard and slow? Hard and fast? Slow and soft?

Any pointers to giving oral? I know mostly what to do but I saw something where men don't give oral 'hard enough'. Did I read this right?

Don't sweat it. Your first time having sex will be over fast so you won't have the option really of going fast or slow or whatever. When you start lasting longer you'll have the option of pace plus. Just do it with someone you trust or someone you don't know and will never see again. I recommend the first one though.

 

[Wulfgar]

just try everything...then its easy...stay receptive to what she responds to.
and trust me..most women will show u what they like wether they know it or not.

and again..if your a virgin..just stick that fucker in there and get it over with ASAP...im pretty sure i nutted the moment my dick got about 3 inches away from the pussy my first time...lol

 

[mustang_00]

i heard it hurts your first time... Bring a box of tissues incase you cry!

 

[flex229]

when fucking, i usually start off real slow and gradually speed up pace so that im literally pounding that pu%&y by the time she starts to cum.

when giving oral, start off licking her clit with the broad part of your tongue. use constant pressure. some girls like it harder, some like it softer..just pay attention to clues. for example, if she gets more vocal when you lick it harder, do that. make sure when you find their "spot", you stay there...if they start making different sounds, or start breathing differently, or squirming, or clenching their muscles, or if their leg shakes (leg shakes usually indicate that she is about to cum),,you know youre doing something right...once you find their "spot," keep doing what youre doing until they cum...

 

[Gymgurl]

Like flex and Bee said...pay attention to the woman and how she responds...if she is smashing your face between her legs she loves it LOL....just watch her......