depression

[TheOak84]

can depression stop you from getting stronger or make you weaker. i dont think im depressed, but i just have feelings for my best (girl) friend, and im not sure if she has the same feelings even though she 'acts' like she does. so im kinda mad/sad/depressed. j/w if that will effect my lifting

thanx

 

[SeanHolmz]

im in the same boat...sucks.... when i lift it actually helps me deal with this situation...

 

[Mike_Rojas]

Don't let it affect your lifting. Use your lifting to get your mind off your problems.

Girls are hard to figure out. You might just have to make a move and see what happens. That's what I did, and now we're married. Best thing I ever did.

 

[TheOak84]

well, when were hanging out drinkin, we get touchy feely, so ur saying... kiss her?

see, it wouldnt be hard if i didnt like her.. with other girls its like, drink a few beers talk, and start groping them then ya get some.. not with this one though. feelings suck

 

[Devastation]

A wise man once commented about girl trouble and lifting excuses and I quote:

“My head is not in it tonight” Well your body is here so you might as well get your fucking head in it. While you are in the gym there is nothing more important than getting the work done regardless of what is on your mind. If it is woman problems or financial problems you must learn to separate yourself from that bullshit. Do you think some girl gives a shit about your workout? Well she doesn’t and she is probably talking to or hanging out with some other guy while you are there working out. So forget about her and if it is money that is bothering you quit lifting and go get a better job because there is no money in lifting. - S. Burns

 

[Lord_Suston]

separate the two events. When going to lift think just about lifting there is time to worry about her after you are done puking

 

[ZGzaZ]

man, i know how you feel...when i have probs with my girl, it affects my lifting...not directly, but it affects my eating...cant seem to get an appetite for anything and that carries over...work through it, you'll only be stronger after.

 

[Thaibox]

Yes, shit like that can definately affect your training and diet. Once again, women are a serious source of this problem. Good luck with the situation brother. Don't let it get to you. I've been in the exact same situation twice.

The first time I ruined my friendship with the girl.

The second time, the girl became my wife.

If you need to vent, pm me bro.

 

[spatts]

A wise man once commented about girl trouble and lifting excuses and I quote:

“My head is not in it tonight” Well your body is here so you might as well get your fucking head in it. While you are in the gym there is nothing more important than getting the work done regardless of what is on your mind. If it is woman problems or financial problems you must learn to separate yourself from that bullshit. Do you think some girl gives a shit about your workout? Well she doesn’t and she is probably talking to or hanging out with some other guy while you are there working out. So forget about her and if it is money that is bothering you quit lifting and go get a better job because there is no money in lifting. - S. Burns

Word.


Why not get her to train with you? Hell, while we're being practical, why not just tell her your feelings and get it over with?

 

[Thaibox]

Hell, while we're being practical, why not just tell her your feelings and get it over with?

Could be dangerous.