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yes. the vagina is like a delicate flower lol
strictly poontang
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He's probably just getting alittle tired. When new, many times a day is easy. Back when I was 16/17, I'd pull 5, 6, 7 as many sessions as I could get in. After awhile, it becomes somewhat stagnant. I'd compare it to this: You experience a brand new flavor of ice cream that you just can't get enough of and gorge on it non-stop. Eventually, you tire of it and don't want it anymore. But, if someone else is at the controls and gives you just enough of of it here and there, you'll never lose the craving and always desire it. Same priciple.
On the other hand, if YOU need it so many times a day and he just isn't willing to provide, I'd consider that incompatability, and it's time to look elsewhere. Sexual compatability isn't the only factor in a relationship, but it's important enough of one to be a deal breaker IMHO.
On the other hand, if YOU need it so many times a day and he just isn't willing to provide, I'd consider that incompatability, and it's time to look elsewhere. Sexual compatability isn't the only factor in a relationship, but it's important enough of one to be a deal breaker IMHO.
The thing is we have sex atleast twice a day but the thing that worries me is that sometimes we don't have it at all and I'm not sure of what to think it is if it's me or the stuff he was taking that shut him down for awhile or stress. I'm not lying about any of this stuff all I'm trying to do is get advice from people who have either went through this or just knows alot about it.
strictly poontang
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Everyone's drive is different, but with mine (being off anything) goes in spurts. I am digging as much as I can get for 5 or 6 days, than couldnt care less for 4-5. Goes up and down. Everyone is a little different.
Bridger
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depends on whose vagina you are referring to
BNG
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Wow there's some mixed advice!
2x a day isn't that bad. If he's coming off maybe his PCT isn't working as well as it could.
As for wanting more, I'm like you, I love days when we go at it a few times, or have extended sessions. My wife has a low sex drive and it drives me nuts! If I talk to her about it she's defensive, and says I'm demanding. I've quit talking about it and have tried to initiate things and she's pushing me away. So I ignored her for a while, and viola! she's pissed and wants to know why. We have a big discussion and I tell her how I feel, she's seeing my side of things. Not that her sex drive is any better. It's just a difficult thing all couples seem to deal with.
Last, if you want dick you have to turn him on. It's not as much about mood for men as it is for women. Be sexy, play with his cock for no reason in line at the grocery store, kiss down his chest while he's on the phone & if he gets a chubby whip it out and suck it. If he end the call hop on! Pick some slut outfit to wear for him. Stimulate him. If it's always about banging every time he's in bed then leave him alone when he's resting and slut it up in other ways. Ask him if there's anything he wants from you. Maybe you are boring, (always missionary)maybe you've refused things that are really not a big deal, but it's what turns him on. Is sex always about you & what you want?
2x a day isn't that bad. If he's coming off maybe his PCT isn't working as well as it could.
As for wanting more, I'm like you, I love days when we go at it a few times, or have extended sessions. My wife has a low sex drive and it drives me nuts! If I talk to her about it she's defensive, and says I'm demanding. I've quit talking about it and have tried to initiate things and she's pushing me away. So I ignored her for a while, and viola! she's pissed and wants to know why. We have a big discussion and I tell her how I feel, she's seeing my side of things. Not that her sex drive is any better. It's just a difficult thing all couples seem to deal with.
Last, if you want dick you have to turn him on. It's not as much about mood for men as it is for women. Be sexy, play with his cock for no reason in line at the grocery store, kiss down his chest while he's on the phone & if he gets a chubby whip it out and suck it. If he end the call hop on! Pick some slut outfit to wear for him. Stimulate him. If it's always about banging every time he's in bed then leave him alone when he's resting and slut it up in other ways. Ask him if there's anything he wants from you. Maybe you are boring, (always missionary)maybe you've refused things that are really not a big deal, but it's what turns him on. Is sex always about you & what you want?
I just might kill to get 2x a day... hell 2x a week 
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