What can I do?

[cindylou]

I am (WAS I mean... before I got preg) in better shape than my husband and he still had a low sex drive. It drove me crazy. If I didnt trust him so much (and also, why would he cheat on me?) I would think he was cheating.

He was fine when he was on cycle and then off cycle he has a low sex drive. Maybe its because he does not like his body when hes not on something? Who knows.

Low self esteem effects both men and women.

 

[goin on 4T]

Maybe he is geigh?

















jk

 

[jbevins18]

I am (WAS I mean... before I got preg) in better shape than my husband and he still had a low sex drive. It drove me crazy. If I didnt trust him so much (and also, why would he cheat on me?) I would think he was cheating.

He was fine when he was on cycle and then off cycle he has a low sex drive. Maybe its because he does not like his body when hes not on something? Who knows.

Low self esteem effects both men and women.

That sounds just like him. When he's on a cycle he's always so confident and ready to go but about a week or two after his cycle ends he just gets kinda mopey. Should I talk to him about this or just keep it to myself?

 

[goin on 4T]

Have you tried masturbation?

 

[jbevins18]

Lol yeah but it only works for so long.

 

[cindylou]

That sounds just like him. When he's on a cycle he's always so confident and ready to go but about a week or two after his cycle ends he just gets kinda mopey. Should I talk to him about this or just keep it to myself?

well, I'd say something to him. It cant hurt. But at the same time, he could always be like this for the rest of his life. If its that big of a problem to you, I'd consider leaving the relationship.

Its not that big of a deal to me, but the problem does not get any better. We rarely have sex if he is not on something. Like once a week, sometimes less and thats childless without kids. It will be less once kids come into the picture. I remember a month last year where we didnt have sex at all. Could you live with that? Its hard not to take it personally.....

 

[jbevins18]

I don't think I could live without sex but I do love him and if we don't have all the sex I want it'll be fine, I hope it's just a phase ya know.

 

[captainahole]

Have you tried masturbation?

I think video's are in order here.

My sex life with my first wife wasn't the best either. She wanted it all the time but fact was she was ugly, shallow but a fact.

 

[cindylou]

I think video's are in order here.

My sex life with my first wife wasn't the best either. She wanted it all the time but fact was she was ugly, shallow but a fact.

why did you marry her? That sounds cruel

 

[captainahole]

why did you marry her? That sounds cruel

cruel for who me yes it was.