how do i get over this? i have a girlfriend that i really care about that i dont cheat on and know she wouldnt cheat on me but sometimes i got to singles websites just to flirt because sometimes it feels like i havent been with many women and i need to at least talk to others that are attracted to me. well one girl whos very attractive who i been talkin to, who is 3 states away from me who i thought ill never meet, which is why i started emalin her has bought nonrefundable plane tickets to come see me this coming weekend...shes paying for everything including hotel room. i cant leave her if shes gonna come all this way and im so attracted to her i feel like 2 nights with a stranger who ill never see again wouldnt be a big deal. my girl thinks im goin away to my college to hang out for the weekend but i cant stop feeling guilty about this? what the hell do i do to stop feelin so freaked out about whats gonna happen this weekend?