Serious gf situation this is bad...

[Ramcononer]

dude no one deserves to go through that shit. Itll be hard but move on. It is like the typical case of the women who stay with abusive guys...except your the one getting abused. Focus on other things...oh yea K for my fellow accountant.werd.

 

[Sassy69]

So for an update she has been gone for 3 weeks and calls me up to day and says if you put £200 pound in my bank account i will come home but my bank is overdrawn so bad i cant even get a £10 for fuel to come home you need to put in £200 at least


I TOLD HER TO GET FUKKED.....

Hope i did the right thing!!!!

So she basically gave you her "return price"? Screw that. She is sooo totally using you. I think you did the right thing. And frankly that might actually help HER take some responsibility for herself too.

 

[heatherrae]

I bet anything in the world that she and the older guy need your money for alcohol/drugs.

There is NO QUESTION that you did the right thing by telling her to piss off.

I do think that you have some issues that you still need to address about why you would have let her do all these things to you before you finally had enough. You need to get your head straight so you are not drawn to the same sort of situation again.

Good luck! =-)

 

[carlsuen]

I bet anything in the world that she and the older guy need your money for alcohol/drugs.

There is NO QUESTION that you did the right thing by telling her to piss off.

I do think that you have some issues that you still need to address about why you would have let her do all these things to you before you finally had enough. You need to get your head straight so you are not drawn to the same sort of situation again.

Good luck! =-)

exaaaaactly!!!

we humans ALWAYS try to find something outside of us to make us happy.. when in truth, nobody can make u unhappy unless u ALLOW it to happen to u.. i myself pratice Buddhism.. it teaches us to built an indestructable fortress in out hearts so that whatever happens we will not be DEFEATED by it.. not telling u to have a heart of stone.. but that whatever happens, u know that u can be HAPPY regardles of the situation.. when u are truely awakened to the fact that only YOU can bring YOURSELF happiness, u will have let go of her and she will no longer be apart of your life..

when u have made this significant change in u, u will attract an entire league of women to u.. so for those who have been wondering y has most of your past relationships been the same, infidelity, scamming, exploiting etc. it is actually a reflection of YOUR own life!! so wake up and smell the roses!! u can find happiness now!! in front of your com when u change your perception!!

love is not two people gazing into each other's eyes and saying "i love u"

it is when two people have the same set of core values and aspirations, dreams, hopes etc. and work together to achieve it for a better future.. and strive to improve their selves day in and day out while not limiting their world to only the both of them, but reaching out to others too..

stop blaming everything outside of u for the shit u r going thru! awaken to the fact that it is actually YOU that allows it to happen.. that u alone is responsible to turning your life around and making it better!! and that YOU are responsible to every misfortune or blessed moments in your life..

wow.. long reply, but i hope u realise what it is i'm trying to say..