Serious gf situation this is bad...

[General-K]

Ok this started before christmas just gone
my GF of 5 yrs we live together have mortgage ect leaves me but let me paint the picture
she hasnt worked for 18 months and expects everthing from me
i work as an accountant and dont really mind this but after say a month she calls and says she wants to come home and i agree then after another month she leavesd me again each time going back to live with her mother
this continues 6 times and i take her back each time cos i love her so then she comes back again and asks me for a large amount of cash which i refuse to give her she then calls the police and says i am being violent towards her (complete Lie) and the police turn up and ask me to leave the house for a few days which i do
i return to the house a week later to find she has emptied the house everything has gone all the furniture all my stuff the lot
a month goes by and she calls me wants to come home with all the furniture
i stupidly agree she is back for a month in this time i find out she has been living with a man 20 yrs older than me i am 27 by the way the guy is dying of syrosis of the liver WTF has no home no job nothing
in the time she is back i buy her a car
she leaves again after a month all she takes is her clothes so i have the locks changed and she has gone back squatting with this guys friends WTF
i dont get it
i dunno what to do i still love the crazy bitch and its tearin me apart

ADVICE please.........

 

[KillahBee]

You don't know what to do???

lol, bro - all the love in the world isn't worth that shit. keep the locks changed, DO NOT contact her or answer her calls, and TALK TO A LAWYER.

Smarten up man. This chick is bad news

 

[Ho0zie]

im wid killah on this one

 

[mesco]

dude you gotta learn from your mistakes

 

[blueta2]

Ok this started before christmas just gone
my GF of 5 yrs we live together have mortgage ect leaves me but let me paint the picture
she hasnt worked for 18 months and expects everthing from me
i work as an accountant and dont really mind this but after say a month she calls and says she wants to come home and i agree then after another month she leavesd me again each time going back to live with her mother
this continues 6 times and i take her back each time cos i love her so then she comes back again and asks me for a large amount of cash which i refuse to give her she then calls the police and says i am being violent towards her (complete Lie) and the police turn up and ask me to leave the house for a few days which i do
i return to the house a week later to find she has emptied the house everything has gone all the furniture all my stuff the lot
a month goes by and she calls me wants to come home with all the furniture
i stupidly agree she is back for a month in this time i find out she has been living with a man 20 yrs older than me i am 27 by the way the guy is dying of syrosis of the liver WTF has no home no job nothing
in the time she is back i buy her a car
she leaves again after a month all she takes is her clothes so i have the locks changed and she has gone back squatting with this guys friends WTF
i dont get it
i dunno what to do i still love the crazy bitch and its tearin me apart

ADVICE please.........

Google for some info on Codependence. You are a classic codependent.
You do NOT love this girl, you are addicted to this roller coaster ride you have with her. Most emotionally stable people would not put up with what you have.
Real love does not feel this way. She has put you into the "Crazies"!
I've been where you are right now.....trust me, read up on codependency.

This site may help you

http://www.studentaffairs.cmu.edu/counseling/documents/relation.htm

 

[immortalis]

Dude, I've been with the same woman for 10 years now. We just got married on New Years eve. She's bi-polar and it makes my life hell.

I've been kinda through the same situation you are describing, only not as bad. But I will tell you this. You need to get out now, period. And dont look back.

Thats the BEST advice anyone can giv eyou in this situation bro. Suck it up. Ditch this emotional hell you've been SELECTING to put yourself through by continuing to take the person that you "love" back. Its not worth it.

There is more than 1 person in this world that we all can be happy with bro, i promise.

I left my wife (girlfriend at the time) for over a year. I thought I was in the clear. My life was picking up... I was pulling out of the depression... things were going well. Then she calls me out of the blue and like a fuckin moron I said she could come over. Of course we end up fuckin, and now here I am... married.

Take advice from a bro whos been there... its just not worth it man.

 

[General-K]

Hey

Thanks for all the advice and posts from all you guys this is making me feel much better keep it coming K to ya all

just really messed my head up =(

 

[justinjones1963]

Enough is enough - dump her if she called the cops on you and stole al of your stuff.

 

[chewyxrage]

Jesus dude. You're being taken advantage of. If you can't see that then you need a life counsler or something.

 

[Ilovetolift]

oh man! Avoid her like the plague, FUCKING BITCHES!