Question for the ladies.....

[PolfaJelfa]

I have a little condition on my cock from some insulin use a while back. The problem is that that my skin around my cock has gotten real tight. Im about to fix this real soon thru my insurance which just took effect...its been getting worse. In short cant get the candy out of the wrapper Everything decent in this condition in intercourse. But during a bj its real awkward...as you could immagine...cant do everything....and well its not that great...alot less sensetivity and as you could immagine harder to keep it up during oral...unless the woman does more jerking.

Would you freak out real bad if you got into bed with a guy and this was the case?

This is real embarasing and im gettign tired of it...cant wait to get this taken care off as its jost gotten worse.

Would that be an immediate turn off id you couldnt pull it down to the meat..

Any oppinions welcome and you can be honest.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Karma for anwsers

 

[racoon_city]

does the skin give you extra girth? im circusized but thin like a pencil

 

[nycgirl]

I can see someone you met during a one night stand freaking out or not being understanding.

If I was working on building a relationship with someone, no it would not bother me. Every now and then someone will have an issue, and if he cares for me he will accept me and I will accept him. Your issue seems temporary, so it shouldn't be a big deal to you or your girl.

That said, tell the girl. Let her know it isn't because she isn't doing a good job. Tell her what she needs to do to get you to have an orgasm via a blow job. Reassure her that you are enjoying it and appreciate her being understanding, etc.

 

[dr_skier]

how did insulin cause that?

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Thanks nycgirl.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Eighter insulin or hormonal imbalance. I believe insulin. Doctor immediately told me in most cases like this ( Phimosis) is caused by diabetes. Which i confirmed i am not...thus it is a highly probable that it was the insulin use during that time, or hormonal imbalances, E1, E2, Test, etc.

 

[needtogetaas]

t.m.i

 

[PolfaJelfa]

It says question for ladies!

 

[needtogetaas]

It says question for ladies!

j/k bro.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Bump for anwsers.

 

[Sassy69]

I think nyc gave a brilliant response. I'm not sure about some girl you just met, but for me, if someone is special to me, a big part of what gets me off is making the other person feel good. And that is bound by what is comfortable or uncomfortable - not what the porn movies say constititutes "an amazing orgasm" or whatever. And particularly if this is something that is getting addressed soon, then its sort of just dealing w/ things a bit differently.

I don't know if its appropriate comparison, but they always show women moan ing and just getting off like crazy while the guy is pounding her. Reality is that the larger percentage of women don't or can't have vaginal orgasms. But if the guy measures "his ability" by getting that orgasm, the girl may be down to just faking "Oh yes baby oh yes you get me so hot oh baby oh baby you make me scream" but in her mind she's like Godddammit that chafes. Is he done already? Why is he taking this like a personal challenge? It ain't gonna happen so just be happy with that. I don't have a problem with not getting the Big O every muthaluvin time, so why should you?'

So you gotta figure out what really works for that person, incorporate it into your "fun" and go from there. If the person you are with just isn't down w/ that, then they aren't the person for you -- that's what I think anyway. Sometimes people's expectations don't match up and it probably won't work.

It sounds painful tho. Is it?

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Thanks for the response girl.

No its not painfull...its nothing nasty eighter...i wish i had a digicam i could show you
It however sucks....while im hard and everything i can not pull the foreskin of my cock down at all now( basically a very little oppening at the top) and cant get the head out. So during a bj its like a candy in the wrapper if you will Also harder to keep it up if not in something. Alot less sensetivity too....like having a permanent very thick condom on. That sucks as the woman cant get to the best part realy



Cant wait to get this thing fixed...its so embarasing!

 

[SoKlueles]

If its a one night stand, and she freaks out, dont take it personally but like the other girls said, if your in a relationship, she loves you for you, not your penis perfection. You will work out ways to have sex that you will both enjoy and feel comfortable with
good luck with your procedure. Im sure it bothers you more than it does anyone else
things about yourself, usually bother you more than anyone else because they dont notice it as much

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Thanks SoKlue...I agree about thinking about it the most..that doesent help. The main part is that i just feel im dissapointing the woman by not being able to give 110%, cant give them the full taste of the red guy I know they all enjoy it so much....oh well i guess il have to live with it for now and give use it as an excuse that i have to do the woman up the ass.

 

[jenscats5]

Hey PJ.....so with this "condition" is it hard for you to cum also?

Again - sex isn't always about having an orgasm. Yes, it's great to have one - but sometimes it won't happen for one reason or another and sometimes there is "equipment malfunctions."

Like the other ladies said - with a one night stand I can see a girl being not nice about it - but with a girl who cares for you - she (I would imagine) would be considerate & understanding about it...as she should be!

 

[superqt4u2nv]

NYC said it best

P.S Make sure to keep up on the hygiene down there, I had a bf that had a for skin issue and it was all slimy behind the for skin made me hate giving him head which is so not me normally nothing I like to do more then give my man a blowjob.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

No its not hard to cum with it Jen. But it doesent get as pumped up...but thats not what worries me.

I think my questions have been anwsered. Thanks

 

[momsgettinfit]

I have a little condition on my cock from some insulin use a while back. The problem is that that my skin around my cock has gotten real tight. Im about to fix this real soon thru my insurance which just took effect...its been getting worse. In short cant get the candy out of the wrapper Everything decent in this condition in intercourse. But during a bj its real awkward...as you could immagine...cant do everything....and well its not that great...alot less sensetivity and as you could immagine harder to keep it up during oral...unless the woman does more jerking.

Would you freak out real bad if you got into bed with a guy and this was the case?

This is real embarasing and im gettign tired of it...cant wait to get this taken care off as its jost gotten worse.

Would that be an immediate turn off id you couldnt pull it down to the meat..

Any oppinions welcome and you can be honest.

Honest answer here........I think it would depend on the woman. Ok if I just met you and we hooked up and I seen that it would freak me out but if I knew you and knew your situation it wouldn't bother me.

 

[the-short-one]

Useless without pictures.


really.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Useless without pictures.


really.

Hmm...i think thats my line.

 

[stilleto]

PJ, nobody is perfect. Unless you're with a chick who's body is not flawed (impossible) or she's never had a medical problem at all, she should understand. and if she doesn't, she's shallow and immature.

an honest explanation should do the trick (no pun intended).

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Ill try to take some pics be4 i get this procedure done. But im not going to post it. Those of you who i know and have sent me good pics be4..well ill let yall take a look

 

[Sassy69]

How long to the operation? We'll root for ya, send ya "Get Hard" cards and stuff. Is this a time to send flowers or porn for your recovery time?

 

[the-short-one]

Besides any smart-ass comments I have to impart, I can't add any more to what Jen, Sassy, etc have told you.

They speaketh the truth.

 

[Gymgurl]

I think all these females were right on.....should not be a big deal and if it is they can hit the door for not understanding...I wouldn't have a problem with it if it was explained to me...

 

[PolfaJelfa]

Not going to be any operations. I had a doctor who told me to circumsize it. I told him to stop being jealous cause i have feeling in my cock and it feels GREAT. I politely asked him if it would be ok for me to cut his dick off...he said "sorry sir" and thought i was going to kill him. Aint nobody clipin anything.

Sassy ill send you a be4 and after hows that
Get hard cards..lmfao....dont need those ...im always hard.
You can send me some pics from your competition though..when you were covered up in shower.

Im evaluating the procedure for it now...need to find a good doctor. Its a procedure not operation. It eigher involves a laser or a little incision..nothing to major. Worst part is im gona be out of service for about 2 weeks im thinking. That will be the worst.....i dread this. Lmfao please dont send me any stuff during this time..lol..that would be mean of you

As for after the recovery time....you can send flowers or porn...but i preffer hookers

 

[the-short-one]

still useless without pictures.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

I realy dont have a digicam now Sorry

 

[the-short-one]

draw a picture.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

LMFAO...buahah

Damn i spilled my protein shake for real after reading that.