Lunnah - looks like things are coming along. Very nice!
About the scale - once you being weight lifting you are adding muscle mass to your body. Muscle weighs more than fat. You may not be burning fat at the same rate you are building muscle so the scale may actually go up - but, your clothes will feel a tad big. Take a look in my journal (ironwings journal *) - in the beginning of the journal I posted pictures of me at a lower weight and then pics at a higher weight after lifting heavy - you'll get the drift. Go ahead and take measurements: chest, bicep, waist, hips, thigh, calf. If you need numbers - those are the ones I'd suggest. If you have access to someone who can measure your bodyfat % that would be extremely helpful too.
Try 3 full body workouts a week. On the other days get your cardio in. I would also suggest taking one full day off from doing anything in the gym (doesn't mean don't be active!). Let me know how you like the lipoflame! Lastly, about diet. RADAR suggested 6 meals a day. While this is the best case scenario I also know that for someone starting out it is nearly impossible and it can frustrate you easily. Start first by eating breakfast each day and increasing your water consumption. Once you have that down, split your lunch into two meals. This now brings you to 4 meals a day - perfect for someone just starting out (and matter of fact, what I do). Keep it simple.
I love that your doing so well in the gym! Doesn't it feel good?